Looking for mature players...
Sooooo im a 41yr old Minecrafter looking to meet other mature players... que unc jokes. 😆
Seriously tho, if there are players out there.... Would like to understand what spaces you multi-player in where there are others around the same age.
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I'm in my 40s too, and play only with my SO.
I have thought about how I miss playing with others on MC, but also don't want to step away from our world, as we've built it up all year long.
The main factor is that I would want to play with people I know I enjoy being around, so just diving into a new save with some new people isn't what I want.
I used to have a bunch I played with, but we all went our own ways about a decade ago.
EgoDedd [OP] 1 points · Oct 2025
I'm also converting friends to MC, and then enjoying a playthrough with them. You are making lots of sense here...
H16HP01N7 1 points · Oct 2025
The main factor is that I don't want to have my attention pulled away from our world. I have ADHD, so that I have stuck to this 1 save, for this long, is an achievement for me. I at least want to see my vision actually fully realised this time 😂.
I think, for me, once I have done that (or grown fully bored of this world), I'm gonna look out for a chill place to play with some guys, and make some new friends. I do miss the fucking about, and trolling (not griefing) my MC buddies.
No_Outside_8979 1 points · Oct 2025
I totally get the adhd thing, I have so many projects all over the place that I bounce between 😂
H16HP01N7 1 points · Oct 2025
I've been like that all my life, and have only recently discovered me having ADHD. Now I know why my focus is pulled in a million different directions, I can focus a bit more. I reckon I have another month or 2 building in this world, to "finish" it (as if a world is ever finished, of course). I want to get it done, as I haven't ever had a world that didn't have at least 30 projects to finish, when I gave up on it.
OP posting this, is giving me an itch I haven't felt in years though, and I'm actually getting a bit existential (hyperbole) about wanting to find a small group to play with 😂😂.
I'm torn between wanting to play with others, and all the joy I know I'll get from that (and that sweet sweet dopemeine) and the knowledge that if I do, I can probably say good bye to finishing my current world 😂.
EgoDedd [OP] 1 points · Oct 2025
I see your dilemma, and trust me, my adhd kicks hard too - so I truly get you. 🙌 I would also like you to consider that it doesn't have to be so black or white here... you can definitely enjoy the solitude and big vision builds in your home world, at the same time benefit / enjoy / learn from the comradere and community fun in multi-player.
Like you say, you will quickly know if you can enjoy the game with another person or not. Its pretty low commitment 😆
H16HP01N7 1 points · Oct 2025
If you have room for a little one, I can find some time to see if we gel well.
EgoDedd [OP] 1 points · Oct 2025
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