u/Trick-Task-1298

Wow, the absolute real mindset of these incels. Disgusting. Gobar filled brains.

That is good and i am really proud, but reality is very different bro.

I am not saying everyone is same but the count of good people is less.

And you know what happens is this thing passes on with generation, your family is good when it comes to this and they have passed on this value to you and you will do the same.

But a lot of families are still on casteism and they are passing the same values to the next one and even the educated ones are not rising above casteism.

Its a very long way to go

Its easy to say - reservation hatao but we don’t even know how the lower caste are treated on daily basis.

You know how they get beaten up if they dare to use the horse carriage during their wedding.

You wouldn’t let them use same cup for tea.

I am all up for merit and all, but ask a general category brahmin, will they treat a lower caste equally and you will have your ans.

But yes i believe, if the first generation has availed reservation, uske baad you should be on merit.

Ps- i am a brahmin and i know how my relatives behaves, thank fully my father has some sense in him and he has risen above casteism.

I once a youtube video where the person was saying that he applied visa from a different country but his Port of entry was different, the airline didn’t even let him board the flight.

The thing is your maximum stay should be in the country that you applied visa for.

But people have had different experience.

Indian men and their degenerate mind. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

I am not proud of anything man, why would i be proud of our shitty behaviour.

Absolutely agree with you, but people just don’t want to improve, i have witnessed this first hand, just look what we have done to indian tourist places, its filth everywhere, filled with garbage and nothing else and yet we behave so entitled.
We go outside and behave in similar ways. We actually are shitty tourists.

The irony is they don’t die, they just kill others

These are just two examples, twitter is filled with these monsters and oh my god the comments are filled with filth and threats

Few years back two of my colleagues were giving gyan around this stance, they said ye aajkal ki ladkiyan in-laws ke sath rehna nahi chahti.

And my very great team lead jumped into the conversation, and oh my god his replies were awesome, he gave really good points

He said, ladki apni puri life chor kar tere ghar ayegi aur tera to room bhi nahi change nahi hoga

Tu daily 10 baje sokar uthega to bhi teri mummy kuch nahi bolengi and ek din teri biwi 1 ghanta extra so gayi to teri mummy usi din baat suna degi

Tera wardrobe bhi change nahi hua, tu abhi bhi ghar mein shorts pehen kar ghumta hai and teri biwi se expect kiya jayega ki wo daily suit pehen kar tayar hokar ghar par rahe

Teri biwi se expect kiya jayega ki ab wo tere maa baap ko apna maan le but tu uske gharwalo ko daily phone bhi nahi karega

Aur tujhe jo raja jaisa treatment apne in laws ke ghar milta hai wo tu apni biwi ke liye guarantee kar to koi ladki mana nahi karegi in laws ke sath rehne ko

And both my colleagues couldn’t say anything after that.

Not every in laws families can be bad but there is definitely a difference with your parents and your in laws.

My in laws are great, like really great, no interference in our lives and i have no sob stories, my mother in law sometime stays with us for a few months and insists on going back to her place to give us some breather.

But yes, its not easy.

I had a wild experience once, some relative suggested a guy and i went to meet him with other relative, he asked me if i had physician relation before and clearly said no (which was true) and he proceeded to ask about my friends, to which i replied that ofcourse i have friends and we hangout and go to movies and my parents knows all my friends

And oh my god, this guy made up stories about me that i have had relations before and i lived with a boy and i go on late night movies and what not, a complete character assassination

My relative is calling me names and saying shit things about me , my father is furious, so one other relative spoke to me and since i have lived with her, she asked me details and gave her every little details and she was like relax, i will talk to your father

One month passed, my father is in town tor some wedding and he is scolding me about i have no sense and all and thn i clearly told him about the questions he was asking me and my father went speechless, i told him why would i tell all this nonsense to a guy, when you don’t pressurise me for marriage, tab jakar buddhi ayi mere gharwalo lo

But man, i stopped trusting guys in arrange marriage set up.

Me and my husband did a road across New Zealand last year in sep and oh my god, it was so so beautiful. We covered north and South Island both and we loved it.

Oh i have been told a lot of awful things by my family:

I lost my mother at a very young age, and my father remarried my step mother was ok but nothing can beat having a real mother at your side

My brother was always given priority in everything and once my father said to me: aisi aulad se to bhagwan kisi ko aulad hi na de

And once he was sick he messaged me that if i die, you are not suppose to come see me

Quite a few, friends since 1996 and going strong

Mere gharwale bhi same the, my brother can do whatever he wants, but with me and my sister where the line is drawn.

Shadi ke baad jo mann aye wo karna, jaise marzi rehna, jaha mann kare waha ghumne and what not

But maine to ladka hi itna mast dhundha ki Jo marzi aye wo karti hun Jaise mann karta hai waise rehti hun And Jaha mann karta hai waha ghumti hun 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Because general public is as vile as these netas when it comes to women, like minded log ha unhe achha lagta hai ki wow humara neta bhi hunare jaisa sochta hai

Yep, my husband’s wedding ring was from bluestone, the designs are good and so is the service.

Got married at the age of 34, my husband is 2 years younger.

Met on a dating site and got married a year later, intercaste marriage.

Got very lucky, my in laws are great, my husband is zero romantic but he takes care of me and we have a super trust between us. Its the little things that matters.

And he is academically amazing like did his college from IIt and for me intelligence always took an upper seat in comparison to looks.

And he motivates me to do savings.

Ummm, in our weddings the bridal lehnga is from the groom’s side. I did a one day function wedding so i dont know if other sangeet or engagement lehnga are suppose to be from groom’s side or not, honestly in old times there was no concept of engagement or sangeet, there was sagai where the girl’s side family would go to the grooms side and take the ring along also girls were not suppose to go and sangeet was like a week thing where females from neighbour would come and do sangeet at home.

But yeah because i know my husband was paying for his side of expenditure and i didnt want to burden him with like an expensive lehnga, i bought a lehnga for only 19k thats it as i always knew that iam never going to waste money on a 2lac ka lehnga

People are literally calling her a slut and mia khalifa and she is only dancing, i mean she is just a kid yaar and perverts are giving her such filth, but you know i saw a dance video of her like few days back and I thought like she is a girl and there will be soon comments flooding with all kind of filth, few men are a literal disgrace to to the entire human race, fuking hate this shit

Same here, when she is away in her hometown, i talk to her every alternate day and she tells me all the family gossip and when she is with us, i watch tv shows with her (not a fan of daily soap) but i watch just to bond may be

Became a dr, married a rich guy who has his own hospital, but the entire family is very conservative and the girl cant eveb talk to guy friends because the husband is a total snob and family is conservative as fuck

Got married at 34, i just stopped going to my relatives, my relatives would call only to ask my marriage plans and be like you are troubling your parents nonsense, i stopped taking their calls, found my man on bumble and got married , and now, husband is the most academically great in my khandaan and earns more thn anyone else in my cousin’s

So it was: in your face you relatives

Ive used sofy for like 10 years and cannot use any other pad, never gave me rash and is very soft.

This country is morally dead, and these are woman praying and i am sure these people have the same mentality: ladki ka rape hua to ladki ki hi galti hogi humare guru ji to bhole hai

This country is making me bitter everyday

I think quite a few times, by guys or man in public places, but oh my god reading these replies and parents calling their daughter the R word.

I think Indian parents don’t really have concept of respect, all they want is their child to agree to them all the time and the moment you say no, you are like the worst kid ever. Bus maa baap hi sahi hote hai baki to sari dunia galat. They even dont care about their kids happiness its just a matter of society to them.