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Love it.

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I think you should just focus on your wedding and stop arguing with your dad about it. You don’t have to accept his wife as family right away, but completely banning her will probably make things worse. Give everyone some space and deal with the relationship after the wedding.

Don’t have kids with someone who already expects you to handle all the hard parts. Parenting should be a shared responsibility, not “you deal with it.” If he won’t change his mindset now, it probably won’t get easier after having kids.

I don’t think you’re necessarily falling out of love. You just sound exhausted. You’ve been carrying a lot for a long time, and the relationship seems to have become more about doctors and taking care of him than actually being partners. Love is important, but sometimes it just isn’t enough to make a relationship work.

You’re probably doing more than you think, but it sounds like you’re putting too much pressure on yourself to constantly prove your worth. Honestly, it may not get better just by trying harder or getting more sleep. Sometimes you have to stop chasing the next achievement and accept that you’re exhausted. You don’t have to have everything figured out right now.

!cqs

Yes please

Here's an updoot toward a moon

My bad!

That is so fun to watch

Whoa that's terrifying but awesome