u/77th_Bat

100% use a hard carrier and buckle them in. His fear is valid, cats are much more fragile than humans and cars are designed to protect us, not them.

Seeking help does not necessarily mean being "cured", but it does mean finding ways to help ensure you never become an offender and finding ways to manage urges in a healthier way.

It is, actually. More officially called "skene's gland", the g spot IS homologous to the prostate. They develop from the same tissue in the womb. Google is free.

Is your happiness more important than his quality of life? He doesn't have to suffer. You are choosing to let him.

of the exact same product, right? .......right??

I'm sure you learned in your training how typically unsuccessful CPR is. Even in good condition, this man likely would've died. I applaud your bravery for stopping to help in the first place, as many people certainly drove by without stopping.

at the very least, it genetically selects for animals less likely to kill humans.

If you can find a better study proving whisker fatigue does exist, I'm all ears. I used to, in fact, be a believer in whisker fatigue.  For now, the study I'm referring to is the best information we have on this understudied topic. Get off your high horse 'till you have something to show for it.

Whisker fatigue is a myth. Studies showed cats whose owners claimed had whisker fatigue showed no preference for whisker friendly bowls/plates

Maybe so, but she's just some internet rando. Why let her make you upset like that? Ur better than that, bro

it's not that serious

I would hope so! I want my house spiders nice and healthy.

AuDHD here too. I've decided not to have biological kids due to ADHD, autism, hypermobility, a genetic bone disorder, depression, and extreme asthma. These are all highly heritable and it's quite likely for me to pass them on. I never want any child to experience what I did. 

TW upcoming, brief mentions of suicide. I was bullied my entire life for being "weird" (autistic), and I will likely continue to be bullied my entire life even once I finish university and settle into a workplace. I'd been self-harming since I was a toddler (yes, seriously), but after starting meds I am 3-4 years clean. I'd been depressed since I was school-aged, and in high school, it got bad and manifested into suicide attempts. I got medicated on such heavy meds I was described as a "zombie" and only now do I feel moderately okay on a slew of so many (expensive) medications (which also cause me nausea) that I need a weekly pill organizer. I could never doom my child to paying a bunch of money each month just to feel somewhat normal. I love my life, I don't want to die, but not being born would've been kinder.

Instead, if I ever decide I want kids, I will adopt. The foster care system is so oversaturated (at least in the US) and instead of bringing a child with a high chance of disability into this world, I'd feel much better caring for one who already exists. So many little cuties are looking for a home begging to be loved!

Tell her "fuck you, you miserable bitch" and if she gets upset, remind her that she can't blame you for her hurt feelings. I mean, you can't know the future, and thus didn't know it would hurt her feelings, so that makes it not your fault! /s

I should hope I have bugs in my home. I brought them inside.

No, for the same reason that opossums aren't common pets. They have a more wild temperament and they have an outdoorsy musk to them.

I find gender stereotypes to be quite euphoric when I'm put in the male category. Is that problematic to push on others? Definitely. Is it wrong to enjoy it for myself? I don't think so. Call me a terf I guess?

4 not 4! r/unexpectedfactorial