u/Alternative_Ride_951

It is a cult mindset when people come to my vent post to harass me. And I never called them delusional. It seems like you have a problem with one of the commenters that called them delusional. Have that talk with them, not me. Saying that a group of people going out of their way to harass me behave similarly to a cult is NOT ableist. Maybe you're the ableist one if you immediately think of disabled people when I bring up cult mindset and cult behavior. This post has nothing to do with disabled people except for the fact that I brought up that I have Autism and ADHD.

You're not alone. While I did not get banned from there, several people went and harassed me in the comments under a post I made there because I switched F/Os in this sub and someone was all nasty to me in the comments so I vented about it there and most of the comments I got there were nothing short of cruel.

Someone sent me an entire essay about how I was a "cheater", another person blamed me for venting about mean comments IN A VENT SPACE when I rightfully got mad at that person for sending such a mean comment and one of those people told me that I'm not fictosexual and instead I'm just a yumeshipper because I'm not "serious enough". I seriously don't think they know what fictosexual means. They think it's determined by being with 1 F/O for life instead of being attracted to fictional characters instead of real people (the latter being the actual definition for the word). I got mass downvoted by jerks who were leaving such mean comments and they got all kinds of upvotes for being mean to me. (I'm actually bisexual and am not claiming a specific F/O because almost all of my F/Os have been cis men with the one exception being Orochimaru who's genderfluid so I want to discover what it's like being with female F/Os since I'm bi and attracted to female characters, I just repressed it due to internalized homophobia caused by my MAGA dad as an AFAB Nonbinary person)

This is the post if you want to see it for yourself. Thing is, it wasn't even any of the mods who were doing it because it's supposed to be a sister sub for r/fictochill but r/fictoventspace is not properly moderated when it comes to people actually harassing you and leaving cruel comments. You were being civil and respectful and yet you get banned instead of the people who were straight bullies towards me in my own post??? I swear they ban the wrong people.

Seriously it's weird how they banned you and never the people who bullied me under my post and sent me an entire essay calling me a "cheater".

And you're not even fictosexual you just came here to harass me. Get a life.

I'm not calling fictosexuality a cult??? You're sounding obtuse right now. I myself am fictosexual. I am talking about the mindset some of the more "serious" ones tend to have when they think it's okay to go and harass someone and tell them that they are "treating" their FICTIONAL partners "like crap". I don't go abusing my F/Os nor do I advocate for that type of behavior but they act like I do just because I now have a different F/O. And yes I say they need help because they are stalking and leaving negative comments under my posts in these other ficto groups that DON'T have rules saying you have to perfectly align with what they consider "serious" and if you don't they witch hunt you.

Oh but loving a "real" person is "healthy"? Are you some kind of health professional? Who are you, a random nobody, to dictate what's "healthy" and what is not? Shut the fuck up and go away you twerp. No one asked for your harmful misinformation. I'm just gonna start being mean to all you fictophobes because I'm sick of educating y'all when y'all won't even listen anyways.

Someone who has been stalking and harassing me saw your post and shared it to DefendingAIart to make fun of you: https://www.reddit.com/r/DefendingAIArt/s/9NesHyZbyq

I'm sharing this because this same person has been making several accounts to stalk and harass me and they've been doing this for months and I noticed that they made a post making fun of you so I thought I'd share it with you. They're now pretending to be a Christian and going after this subreddit because I'm an Ex-Christian and they're doing this to "get back at me" I guess.