u/AppointmentMinimum57

164 post karma · 33.2k comment karma · joined Feb 2021

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Sure lets meet in exactly 1 year at the top of mount everest, you are a chicken if you dont show up.

But seriously how fucking pathetic do you have to be to start talking about fighting someone cause you arent able to properly argue/ take the smallest bit of scrutiny.

I hope you are aware of how insecure you are to bring that up.

In what way would me kicking your ass change anything about what i have already said?

In what way does the ability to kick someones ass give any more weight to ones opinion?

Are you gonna start listening to mma fighters medical opinions in favor of the ones of doctors?

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I have female friends whom i dont want to fuck.

I am friends with them cause they are fun to be around, we share intrests and generally care and are there for each other.

Maybe there is some corolation about having the type of personslity that makes you end up in a sub like this.

Not to say that what the meme speaks of isnt a horrible situation that does happen.

But at a certain point you got to wonder, is it maybe you?

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Women with their arms, legs and their heads almost seem like dudes, kinda gay and whack to cuddle them if you think about it.

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Women have on average lower iq, so why should any man listen to any woman. -this is how dumb you sound here

"History and facts" dont make a absolute like all male groups are problematic right.

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Women post 80% of bullshit here thx to you

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The spoiler is right in the title you clown.

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Where is this good content, is it in the room with us?

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Thx for the spoiler numbnuts

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While yes femininity is still seen as negative to alot of people thats not all thats going on.

Masculinity isnt inherent, its something boys have to earn to belong.

Even women like to claim what does and doesnt make a "real man"

And a defining feature of what we think masculinity is is domination.

Dominating both women and other men is part of the game.

Showing ones feminine side gives other people easy pickings to make you look worse and therfore themselves better.

And both men and women uphold that status quo.

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LoL

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This is some pandora style decision making

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Just like some black americans hate white people while simultaneously enjoying "white" things.

And where i am from some people hate the turkish but still enjoy eating dönner kebab.

There are levels to it, we all got our prejudice, some more some less.

Some might hate a group of people soo much that they can't enjoy anything that can be asociatee with it.

But most people don't hate on that level.

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What about non white racists?

Maybe you should also think about something that would change your mind.

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Alot of subs already have detailed faq that gets ignored by 99% of people posting.

What makes you think about detailed wiki will be diffrent?

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If things keep going downhill for 20 years maybe.

But i seriously doubt that any western country would go so far, democratically.

If we get a true dictator in the west all bets are open.

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UBI can definitely work but how do we transition from current capitalism to that?

Where do we get the money from?

Uping the taxes of corporations is probably just gonna make them move their buisness elsewhere, reducing the available capital of thec state even more.

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So you are saying you dont care about children in palestine dying?

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That makes 0 sense.

You lack reading comprehension but make up for it with projecting.

I hope you actually go and do that healing, have a nice live.

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You are the only one comparing them.

Get off reddit and go to therapy.

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Maybe it will also just pass.

Sometimes people just arent in the right mindspace and everything will be about issue x, because they still need to do some healing and arent even able to not think about it.

Taking a break from the friendship without explicitly ending it and coming back after some time, sometimes does the trick.

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I feel like not saying "women" or "men" in a way that generalizes, goes a long way.

Some people want to make a thing out of it being ok when said about men, they can die on that hill if they want, they just arent gonna have many productive conversations about these things.

People are gonna feel attacked when you attack the group they belong too.

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Its not just a few women and nowhere did i say they are the same.

Trying to disregard misandry is peak misandry.

You hearing "mysogany isnt bad" when it is said nowhere is a you problem, get a grip.

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I get that, i know some people who talk that way too.

Id try to make them understand that that type of language is counterproductive and will always turn the conversation into something else.

Im sure they feel the same when the roles are reversed and somebody blames men for everything.

Set a clear boundary that you will not take part in gender war discussions and leave it at that.

If they cant help but make everything about it then i would stop hanging out with them.

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I stopped reading at the "mysogany is worse"

Did they ever actually say that or do you just assume they mean do downplay it by talking about misandry?

Cause that happens alot and its part of the problem.

You cannot even talk about it without opening up a whole can of worms it seems.

And no misandry isnt something only a few bad apples do, just like mysigany its engrained into society.

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Yeah but if you keep to your bubble, you will never have to challenge yourself and can just act like everybody outiside of it is crazy.