u/Competitive_Dog_8583

Thanks!!

That is a really interesting take, I wonder, could you elaborate more? Because when it comes to children my first thought is some people are natural born parents (mother, father, etc) so having a child is a need, cohabiting with your partner could be a need for people too… but obviously if the relationship isn’t strong you won’t have kids or live with them… so is that what you mean by people aren’t polyamorous, relationships are?

Im so so sorry ❤️ I hope things work out for you soon

I appreciate your input. But out of curiosity what would even be able to be accomplished in couples therapy? Because if you’re not compatible then that’s it. You can’t magically become compatible when both of you aren’t satisfied or secured?

Coming from someone who generally has a low Lobito, and is pretty vanilla… find yourself someone who makes you feel sexy and confident it’ll do wonders for your bedroom life. I used to think I hated giving oral but with the right partners I love it. Anywhere anytime with the right partner. This my darling is assault, he is coercing you into consenting, no wondering why you wouldn’t want to give him head, he’s repulsing me I wouldn’t want to put my mouth on that thing either. You’re better than me, I would have bitten it off by now

Honestly the us is making me feel like I’m in a in a simulation rn. I can’t believe any of this is real

Babes my the same situation happened with my ex and I (I called him out for being abusive, then he started calling me abusive) and then he kidnapped me, and I had to flee to the other side of the country, safely, carefully, quietly, and quickly, get out!

I am not, nor have I ever been morbidly obese, but my mental health took a decline after I moved across the country, got stuck in a toxic job, and relationship with my now ex husband so I put on a considerable amount of weight for my what had always been small frame. He tried to talk to me about it and I got defensive, and brushed him off, he then berated me by telling me I was the most disgusting person, etc. that ruined our relationship. What I wish he did instead was when I brushed him off he would have said he would make our meals, or (because honestly he can’t cook) paid more attention and thought out my meals more, meal prepped, and found local gyms, or private instructors around us before talking to me about it because although he thought I was still beautiful i have put on weight and he knows it is because my mental health is going to the wayside. Please don’t tell her you’re not attracted to her. That was how my conversation started with my ex, it made me feel awful about myself so I got defensive and (I’m not saying you’re toxic) but that’s when he was cruel to me, after that I was barely able to keep anything down for a month and yeah I lost weight but now I gag or have acid reflex whenever I look in a mirror. In my experience at that pint in my life my mental health and body image was extremely fragile and that sent me over the edge

Oh ok, so a simple cleansing will do the job?

I will be driving to my new state and that should take roughly 36 hours