u/ConfusedSamus

1,204 post karma · 4,293 comment karma · joined Nov 2021

1. 0points

   Friend experiencing aching at site of estrogen gel application (self.MtF)

   submitted Apr 2026 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

   6 comments

2. 29points
   

   Need to know the truth (old.reddit.com)

   submitted Feb 2026 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transpassing

   25 comments · source

3. 92points

   Fear of being assaulted in EITHER bathroom [MtF] (self.transgenderUK)

   submitted Nov 2025 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transgenderUK

   28 comments

4. 318points
   

   Day 1428 of getting slowly more trans around certain family members until they notice (i.redd.it)

   submitted Oct 2025 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transpassing

   22 comments · source

5. 9points

   My T is already below female levels from monotherapy. My doctor said adding spiro will benefit me. (self.MtF)

   submitted Sep 2025 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

   16 comments

6. 6points

   Does there exist a comparison of which chapters are included in which abridgements? (self.Journeytothewest)

   submitted Nov 2024 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/Journeytothewest

   0 comments

7. 20points
   

   MtF, 32, 2 years HRT. I sometimes get gendered correctly but seem to get he/sir/bro/pal/mate on a near daily basis as well. I think my jaw is probably the issue. (old.reddit.com)

   submitted Oct 2024 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transpassing

   10 comments · source

8. 8points

   32 MtF, 2 years HRT and I get sir/he/mate/pal/bro near constantly. I'm feeling like it's just not really working for me? What do you think is wrong? What can I improve? (old.reddit.com)

   submitted Oct 2024 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/trans

   2 comments · source

9. 1points

   MtF, 32, 2 years HRT. Sometimes I get gendered correctly but it seems like I still get he/sir/bro/mate/pal on a near daily basis. After this long I'm doubting my potential and not sure what I need to change. (old.reddit.com)

   submitted Oct 2024 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transpassing

   1 comments · source

10. 241points

    New UK-based online clinic set to fill the void of Gender GP and circumvent puberty blocker ban (self.transgenderUK)

    submitted Jul 2024 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transgenderUK

    72 comments

11. 24points

    Bought Kufiyehs from a seller in Palestine, unfortunately unsure if they're really Hirbawi (old.reddit.com) [HELP / ASK THE SUB]

    submitted Dec 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/Palestine

    43 comments · source

12. 333points
    

    I took a selfie the day I started my job, and recreated it one year later. (i.redd.it)

    submitted Dec 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transtimelines

    2 comments · source

13. 1points

    If I paused HRT, how much would I be losing timeline-wise? (self.MtF)

    submitted Dec 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

    1 comments

14. 2points

    Is getting the ASUS ROG Flow X16 (i9-13900H, RTX 4070 version) a good idea? (self.GamingLaptops) [Question]

    submitted Apr 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/GamingLaptops

    2 comments

15. 6points

    When confronted with "Provide examples of JKR being transphobic" (self.trans) [Possible Trigger]

    submitted Mar 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/trans

    9 comments

16. 24points

    Trigger: medical trauma. I put off coming out to my mum and now I might have lost the chance forever. (self.trans) [Trigger]

    submitted Feb 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/trans

    8 comments

17. 147points

    I've noticed a huge uptick in sealioning tactics from TERFs lately. (self.transgenderUK) [Vent]

    submitted Feb 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/transgenderUK

    18 comments

18. 17points

    I go backwards and forwards in my mind (self.actual_detrans) [Advice needed]

    submitted Jan 2023 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/actual_detrans

    16 comments

19. 3points

    Starting estrogel and finasteride - should I do monotherapy instead? (self.AskMtFHRT)

    submitted Oct 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/AskMtFHRT

    1 comments

20. 1points

    Should I be worried about starting HRT and a new job at the same time? (self.MtF) [[Discussion]]

    submitted Oct 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

    8 comments

21. 3points

    Confusion over time between laser sessions (self.MtF)

    submitted Oct 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

    4 comments

22. 580points
    

    just not an *actual* guy, ya know what I mean? (i.redd.it) [Transfem enby]

    submitted Sep 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

    38 comments · source

23. 114points
    

    egg🤔irl (i.redd.it) [Transfem Meme]

    submitted Sep 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/egg_irl

    23 comments · source

24. 17points

    Got told I had to use the womens' (self.MtF)

    submitted Jul 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/MtF

    6 comments

25. 30points

    Is it normal to feel so ashamed / embarrassed / guilty? (self.asktransgender)

    submitted Mar 2022 by u/ConfusedSamus to r/asktransgender

    9 comments