u/Consistent-Carry7783

Given that your voice is good I would say you wouldn’t be clocked in passing or short everyday interaction but to be completely honest, I would prepare for the fact that your boyfriends family will find out or has. Still a few clocky features that could be picked out.

I recently had a conversation with my best friend about this and the idea of being seen either as your race or gender first. It is unfortunately so clear the material difference between being a black or white trans women. I am sorry you feel like people are dismissing that.