u/Domothakidd

Same. I feel like 18-20 you’re not seen as an adult fr so you can still get away with certain things. But 21 is when you really gotta start getting your shit together

Graduated high school in 2023. Can confirm I was never taught cursive. We went over it for a day in 3rd grade because we saw it in our workbook and begged the teacher to do a lesson

Still pre-op but phallo has more pros for me than meta. I already feel like a dude with a micro-penis. Meta wouldn’t help relieve dysphoria because of this. Phallo would give me a dick that’s the same size as most cis guys, the ability to STP, bulge, the ability to do PIV easily which is important to me as a straight guy, and I wouldn’t have to worry about certain situations like changing in a locker room.

Honestly dislike how wanting a larger size is seen as a bad thing on the phallo sub

Chitterlings/Chitlins. Aka pig intestines. They smell as gross as they sound. Haven’t tried them and never planned too

We also have “Gypsy Sisters”

No because I very rarely use the chat. For years when playing with friends I’ve always called them and if I’m alone I don’t roleplay with anyone

I don’t like it. You either have severe dysphoria which negates a medical transition or you don’t. The graph makes it look like there’s different levels of the same condition

Title scared me a little lol but same. I never experienced being a “girl” past my freshman year of high school. Afterwards I socially transitioned and was able to pass 40% of the time then started T at 17 so I quite literally have never experienced adulthood as a woman.

Haven’t converted yet because I’m not able to attend a church regularly enough to be a catechumen but because after reading church history, the Eastern Orthodox Church is the best contender for being the one true unchanging apostolic church of Jesus Christ

I look at it like this, you’re not paying for a fitness coach, you’re paying to be able to speak with another trans person and feel validated. That said, paying for any type of fitness coach is a scam unless you’re a bodybuilder trying to get your IFBB pro card. Just join a trans discord and see if they have a fitness section

There’s a surgeon in San Francisco with Align Surgical that uses a tissue expander for your donor site. With this method instead of a huge graft scar you’ll have a long thin scar on your thigh. It’s still in the early stages so they’re pretty selective about who they take (on top of already being a candidate for ALT) but I don’t see why more surgeons wouldn’t start offering it within 10 years

It’s rooted in the HSTS theory. Gay men being flamboyant = them having feminine brains. Homosexual-Transsexual (HSTS) is a theory which states some gay men have brains that are so feminine they get dysphoria and need to transition to women. This has been widely debunked and isn’t seen as accurate or reliable

Looks like we both have bad dream control lol. It’ll happen to me semi-often where I know I’m dreaming but I can’t do anything. It’s like watching a movie where I’m the main character. Still remember one time I was begging myself to wake up because a dinosaur was chasing me

Jihyo in Doughnut!

Yes I’m a Christian

Bad optics for us overall and she shouldn’t have competed. All people are going to see is a biological man beating biological women in a category meant for biological women. Are you trying to further restrict trans people from participating in sports??

I leave it cracked just enough for my cats to move in and out. If it’s closed they’ll bang on my door and scratch the carpet to try and get in.

Not particularly well but also not super bad. My grandparents are your cookie cutter religious conservatives. While my grandfather hasn’t said anything to my face about it, he made his feelings well known to my grandmother and is completely unsupportive, which is fine with me because I was never close with him since he’s a piece of shit in general. My grandmother is neutral. She doesn’t like it or agree with it but she’s come to accept it because she knows I’m transitioning whether she likes it or not. I was first outed to her by my uncle when I came out to him at 15, to which she then called my mom crying and was like “why are you letting her do this” although my mom made it clear I wasn’t going on HRT at that time. So she’s known for a few years but then I came out to her officially at 17 because I was starting HRT soon. We had to have a couple of long conversations where I had to explain to her what dysphoria was, how it made me feel, what I did to unhealthily cope with it (including stuff even my mom doesn’t know), how I was raised in church and still “decided” (from her perspective) to do this, how I didn’t have anyone in my ear saying they’ll love me more if I did it, and how I don’t even know any trans people irl. Those conversations made her understand I wasn’t transitioning for any of the reasons Fox News likes to say.

Secondly, and I’m gonna be honest because it’s all over my account, I’m a transmed and explained things to her from the transmed side of things after those initial conversations which further helped her understand me.

So now we’re at a place where she calls me by my name and uses the correct pronouns amongst family, excluding my grandfather because he’ll start an argument with her, and we just don’t talk about it but she let it be known she wouldn’t help me with anything transition related and I wouldn’t ask her anyways. I consider this to be a good medium between us

Normal trans people who pass are stealth so you wouldn’t know if you met one or not

I don’t feel a romantic connection because I don’t know her but if given the opportunity I would date Jihyo

He’s right. The only way to deal with height insecurity is to accept it and move on

Yes, Christian, theologically conservative, politically libertarian