u/FancySauce1818

1,949 post karma · 461 comment karma · joined Apr 2012

  1. 15points

    Just moved here - Ways to make friends? (self.Westchester)

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  2. 2points

    [Hiring] Pinball arcade scene with my boyfriend and I and his cat (self.HungryArtists) [Position Filled]

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  3. 64points

    My old girl says that this is a *stick* up. Better watch your back. (i.redd.it)

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  4. 2points

    [Hiring] illustration of my BF for Christmas (self.artcommissions)

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  5. 4points

    [hiring] Looking for someone to draw my D&D character (full body) for under $40 (self.artcommissions)

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  6. 1points

    [LFA] Kasula Strayelder: Wood Elf Druid (self.characterdrawing) [Request]

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  7. 743points

    I just want reddit back to normal again... (imgur.com)

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  8. 3points

    Not sure if I have an NMom but may need some help/advice? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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FancySauce1818

Hopefully you have some luck !! I know it’s been difficult for me so if you find anything that works let me know! Good luck!

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We live in an older neighborhood with not a lot of people our age, and people tend to keep to themselves. We go on walks and say hi to passerby’s but that’s about the extent!

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Good idea!! Any good dog parks you can recommend? The only one I found I had to pay into which is a foreign concept to me...lol

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Thank you for the great ideas!! If you don’t mind me asking, what’s the OCA?

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Great idea!! Thanks for commenting :)

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POSITION FILLED! Thank you all for showing me your amazing art!!!

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Thank you everyone for your comments but I have found someone to do this!!! I loved looking through all your art styles and have found a few of you that I will definitely be contacting in the future!!!!! ♥️

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I dated this guy for about 5 months. He was charming and sweet. He said he had just moved into town which was why he didn't have many friends other than family members. Well some red flags started popping up and he was starting to become over protective and extremely jealous. He also invited me on a float trip with him and his brother and when I went he told me that the float was to spread his mothers ashes because she had just died. (I had no idea she died and I had no idea this was the plan for the float) I ended things with him after this and then found out a week later (from his cousin who I ran into at a bar) that he had been in jail for 3 years previous to our relationship for domestic assault of his then-girlfriend and 2 year old daughter. All of this I had ZERO idea about. He lied our entire 5 month relationship. BULLET. DODGED.

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I know I'm late to this party but The Greatest by Cat Power gets me.

The simplicity and sadness of it just tears at my heart.

"Melt me down into big black armor Leave no trace of grace just in your honor"

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Troy's cookie crisp breakdown was one of the moments I had to pause the show and belly laugh uncontrollably for a while. This show gets me.

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very interested how much are you selling for

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Want: 1x 3 day GA pass (STL/KC MO area) PM if you are selling one!

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I know I'm late but I love this one:

“I could hear my heart beating. I could hear everyone's heart. I could hear the human noise we sat there making, not one of us moving, not even when the room went dark.” - Raymond Carver, What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

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It's OK to be busy and stressed. And it's OK to be a normal human being to your kids and have bad days. What's NOT ok is if a child is continually scared of a reaction you will have as a parent. Don't confuse being a human and having emotions with emotionally scarring your kids!! It's not the same!! :) :) YOU GOT THIS

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I can see your point in that, but I wouldn't limit yourself if you want more than one just because of that reason. I would say if you are with the right person who supports you and can tell you when you can't see what you're doing, and you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll be just fine!!! Keep your head up!

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I am legitimately terrified of having children because of how I was raised. I'm so scared that I will not have the patience that I need because I was never shown any true patience or forgiveness growing up. But I also realize that because I am consciously, everyday, fighting to be a better person, that I could have kids. The scariest thing about being a parent is that you have the ability to forever hurt or love a child. But it looks like you are doing your best to weigh out why you would act a certain way and that makes you way ahead of the curve! Just always remember that you are NOT your parents, and if you actively seek to always better yourself as a parent then your children will learn that amazing quality as well. Hope this helps!

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NEW BAND NAME! CALLED IT!