u/Fastidious_chronic

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Fastidious_chronic

The poor innocent baby, I hope the afterlife is bright for her. Some people hope with all their heart to have a child. Only those with no heart could even imagine this let alone carry it out.

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It's giving loser... Yeah you are.

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Weak advice from a prick

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You made yourself look like a fool when you started slagging people off for nowt tbh

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Fucking idiot. The situation not you 🙄

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Surprised he didn't call the situation a fucking idiot again

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You little fucking fibber

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Work made me anxious and depressed

Edit: add "lol" Can't wait to clock in in the morning for another ten hours of NI contributions.

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(I tried to post before but it disappeared? So I've copied the original reply below (apols if this ends up as double post just trying to share the research I did to reply) hope it helps someone)

Jobs & Recruitment 🌐Flexible Working Requests - CAB info: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/work/flexible-working/applying-for-flexible-working/ and also check out Access To Work advice on there too.

🔍Done a quick national search on remote roles: https://uk.indeed.com/q-remote-working-jobs.html and CAB also have remote jobs. Not sure what your quals/interests are but worth checking regularly.

📇Specialist recruiters;

📊 Ambitious about Autism https://www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk/what-we-do/services/i-am-an-employer/recruit-autistic-talent

🖥️Auticon (technology jobs for autistic people) https://auticon.com/uk/careers/

🗄️Careers with Disabilities https://www.careerswithdisabilities.com/jobs/autism

💻Online Freelancing Jobs - these might give you some income to start building up while looking for something fixed or permanent. 5️⃣Fiverr is the most well known I think for UK https://www.fiverr.com/start_selling?source=footer 🆙And there's UpWork which is like an indeed for this sort of work https://www.upwork.com/freelance-jobs/ & about UpWork https://www.upwork.com/work

Living at Home & Support for Independent Living

🏠Living at Home as an Adult: Nothing wrong with being at home. When the market is still in favour of zero hour contracts etc. My brother still lives at home as his pay is so variable. Do not forget we all have to live and make a life with the resources available. It doesn't matter the roof as long as it's keeping you safe.

However OP where you are now doesn't sound safe. 🛌🏻 Independent Living & Support: Can you contact social services and explain the situation? You may be entitled to benefits like PIP which could help support you. Many locations have house shares as a stepping stone to independent living. 🛌🏻PIP Advice (Autism.org.uk) 🛌🏻 Supported Living (autism.org.uk)
🛌🏻Living Autism Accommodation Support Advice 🛌🏻 Scope - Council & Support for Housing

Please note this is just general advice and I'm not affiliated with any of the above organisations nor have I worked for them so I can't guarantee how helpful they'll be. But in my experience CAB (citizens advice bureau) are a great starting point for resources and support.

Wishing you and everyone the best.

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Hi hope the below links helps for finding remote roles in UK 🔍Done a quick national search on remote roles: https://uk.indeed.com/q-remote-working-jobs.html and CAB also have remote jobs. Not sure what your quals/interests are but worth checking regularly.

Jobs & Recruitment

📇Specialist recruiters;

📊 Ambitious about Autism https://www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk/what-we-do/services/i-am-an-employer/recruit-autistic-talent

🖥️Auticon (technology jobs for autistic people) https://auticon.com/uk/careers/

🗄️Careers with Disabilities https://www.careerswithdisabilities.com/jobs/autism

💻Online Freelancing Jobs - these might give you some income to start building up while looking for something fixed or permanent. 5️⃣Fiverr is the most well known I think for UK https://www.fiverr.com/start_selling?source=footer 🆙And there's UpWork which is like an indeed for this sort of work https://www.upwork.com/freelance-jobs/ & about UpWork https://www.upwork.com/work .

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Hello below are some links I hope help (for UK) you and others with similar query. (Edited to add 🛌🏻 info to reply)

🌐Flexible Working Requests - CAB info: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/work/flexible-working/applying-for-flexible-working/ and also check out Access To Work advice on there too.

🔍Done a quick national search on remote roles: https://uk.indeed.com/q-remote-working-jobs.html and CAB also have remote jobs. Not sure what your quals/interests are but worth checking regularly.

Jobs & Recruitment

📇Specialist recruiters;

📊 Ambitious about Autism https://www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk/what-we-do/services/i-am-an-employer/recruit-autistic-talent

🖥️Auticon (technology jobs for autistic people) https://auticon.com/uk/careers/

🗄️Careers with Disabilities https://www.careerswithdisabilities.com/jobs/autism

💻Online Freelancing Jobs - these might give you some income to start building up while looking for something fixed or permanent. 5️⃣Fiverr is the most well known I think for UK https://www.fiverr.com/start_selling?source=footer 🆙And there's UpWork which is like an indeed for this sort of work https://www.upwork.com/freelance-jobs/ & about UpWork https://www.upwork.com/work

Living at Home & Support for Independent Living

🏠Nothing wrong with being at home. When the market is still in favour of zero hour contracts etc. My brother still lives at home as his pay is so variable. Do not forget we all have to live and make a life with the resources available. It doesn't matter the roof as long as it's keeping you safe.

🛌🏻 However where you are now doesn't sound safe. Can you contact social services and explain the situation? You may be entitled to benefits like PIP which could help support you. Many locations have house shares as a stepping stone to independent living. 🛌🏻PIP Advice (Autism.org.uk) 🛌🏻 Supported Living (autism.org.uk)
🛌🏻Living Autism Accommodation Support Advice 🛌🏻 Scope - Council & Support for Housing

Please note this is just general advice and I'm not affiliated with any of the above organisations nor have I worked for them so I can't guarantee how helpful they'll be. But in my experience CAB (citizens advice bureau) are a great starting point for resources and support.

Wishing you and everyone the best.

Edited to add: Info under the 🛌🏻 bullet point.

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Thanks for posting this I feel I'm going insane. 5 years of trying actively. GP delayed referral. GP spent 5 years saying it was all down to me, my PCOS and weight (despite being within bmi). Sadly before I met my husband I had an early failure. So I know the eggs are there. Anyway starting our IVF journey and the issues are mostly down to his product so it just seems mad to me I'm the one having to still prove myself and all he needs to do is have a nice time with a magazine.

I've been at baby shower today and the heartache whilst celebrating and being happy for others is a hard conflict made worse when I feel blamed for our own situation. I'm feeling the frustration and resentment so sorry if this doesn't really respond properly to your post.

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At primary were all running about in knickers and vests together! Our reception age toilets was one block with the urinal separated by a privacy screen but we all went in th same door.

Our sports teams were based on the class you were in or year group. It was only at secondary school you saw the split (and unnecessary competition) for netball, hockey etc. I think we still did gym, rounders, athletics and cross country as mixed genders.

It didn't harm me...at least not that I'm aware of 😄

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I hope they don't waiver on this and listen to the likes of Liz Walker.

Buying British and eating seasonally is how we can support our farmers and avoid eating shit quality chlorine food.

Years ago meat was a luxury but now demand means the supply chain looks for quick and cheap remedies.
No I'm not saying good meat should be expensive either just saying we need to stop/reduce relying on imported crap. I still think it's mad that ready meals have chicken from Thailand in them.

Yes some things need imported but not bacteria filled bleached or roided up meat.

Trump making these sweeping levies and saying his country is the one being pillaged and looted is just....trump narrative.

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Adrian do you know what embarrassed means you fucking narc

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Spoiler for end of season......

Never mind John, my boy Lloyd got sent off branded and no job lined up. I know he's not real but I just wanted him to be alright 😂

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Love your Scooby-Doo 🤍

Mines on Tails (UK) kibble.

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Was the dog she fought with a dog or bitch? They could have been fighting over rank/order. Is the puppy also a bitch? Also need to remember sometimes dogs fight to sort their issues out and while it's awful for us and not the behaviour we would expect or tolerate, we do apply human standards to animals.

I would advise supervision when in contact with other dogs and muzzle training. Muzzle her when she's around the other if off lead. Owner responsibility is key for the welfare of our animals. Muzzles aren't bad, they're to protect them as much as others around them.

I'm sorry that your dog has had that experience.

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My ex should enter, convinced me enough times. Handy as Santon Bridge not far from their house.