u/Haunting-Sport3701

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Get the fuck off reddit Elliot.

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Yes, but staring isn’t the sole meaning of checking out. Again I’m responding to you saying that checking people out is objectification. Not to the study talking about staring at people and drooling over them.

In my opinion noticing and glancing is fine, but staring and in other ways making the subject uncomfortable is not.

Both are included under the definition of check out, hence me saying that your definitive statement about checking out being objectification isn’t necessarily true.

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I disagree, the angle from which someone is looking at the person isn’t important. People are attracted to others bodies, that can include any body part, so I don’t see how checking whether you are attracted to a specific part of a person’s body is inherently objectifying.

There is a difference between going “Oh, I’m attracted to this person’s physical attributes, maybe I should approach them to get to know them better and see if there’s a spark.” and just lusting after them.

Again, what you’re talking about isn’t checking out, it’s lusting and/or eyefucking the person.

Do you think it’s wrong to find someone’s ass attractive? 

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Checking out doesn’t mean stating at someone’s ass.

It’s a man noticing a woman has attractive features or vice-versa.

There’s a difference between a woman or man noticing someone has an attractive body and someone staring and drooling over them.

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Sure following them around and openly staring is objectification, but thats not the definition of checking out.

“to look  at someone because you thing they are attractive  and you may be romantically  or sexually interested  in them”

This can be objectifying if you’re disregarding someone’s personhood, but it can also just be you seeing if you’re physically attracted to a person before approaching them with romantic intentions.

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It’s actually insane, I can’t understand how anyone can say the type of shit you hear from the far-right guys.

My dudes, how can you claim to be heterosexual while hating women so viscerally?

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Not really? It can be, but there are other factors to consider, finding someone physically attractive by itself isn’t objectification.

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Where are all these radical communist witches? I've been looking and the best I could find was centre-left non-religious chicks, was really dissapointed.

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INSULT ABOUT YOUR MOTHER

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Not always, I was working my first job at a restaurant over the summer and would spend a lot of the day on the parking lot bringing guests to the restaurant (it was a short walk away and tourists are generally idiots). While sitting there an old black cat would have often come to me, not for food, but for attention and cuddling. He'd purr like crazy and was extremely friendly.

Than one day I find him dead on the parking lot, my boss wasn't looking where he was going and hit him dead-on. The other employees put him in the bag and wanted me to throw him in the trash at the end of the shift, but I just felt so fucking bad I borrowed a shovel and went a short way into the nearby woods and buried him. The half-month until summer's end was depressing, I kept expecting him to come-by when I was sitting on the parking lot.

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Yes, just by the Serbs this time. My family lived through the Serb bombings of Slavonia, if you can say the same do share your experience. If not, fuck off.

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I have no idea why I keep getting recommended this cesspit.

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Nah, not unless you proceeded to make a 1-star review about how this, honestly mediocre, movie raped your childhood, murdered your parents, took your wife and shat on your bed.

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As a CK3 player they should have just had the kids, got it over with and continued on normally.

They’ve got all the social privileges of being nobles anyways, part of the price of that is having your marital affairs determined by the needs of the realm.

Laenor could have had however many other partners he wanted, while still doing his duty.

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Yeah, so you're saying 'girl dinner' is some meaningless internet bullshit and that you're too proud and agressive to hold a normal conversation without insulting people. Thanks for the explanation. Please do not respond further, this nonsense is getting tiring.

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Dw, you aren’t likely to feel fucking anything anytime soon with that gay ahh atitude.

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Mfer through he was saying something smart. Go back to your roach infested den neckbeard.

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This degenerate is proud of being a fascist. I hope you understand that your ancestors would kill you with their own bare hands could they hear you. You’re a traitor to all Croats who fought and defeated the Ustashe pigs.

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!SPOILERS!

Durge can be pretty much anything roleplay-wise.

What we know of their background is that >!they were created by Bhaal and on their own until they were adopted and had a happy childhood.<!

Bhaal proceeded to force them to kill their adopted family, and whenever they disobeyed took over and made them kill those close to them.

Eg. If your Durge is a paladin Saraavok tells you that your bloodlust forced you to kill your whole temple of paladins. (I’m assuming Durge joined the paladins to suppress Bhaal’s influence following the family situation in this universe).

We don’t know when they broke under pressure and started doing Bhaal’s will, but at that point they were fully isolated from everyone, forced to murder, and forced to find pleasure in it, the way the narrator and Orin describe it Bhaal’s offspring are made to feel incomparable ecstasy from murder, imagine if you could literally get addicted to killing.

Once they lost their memories they are still forced to kill, but most of the damage can be circumvented through the fact that all that trauma and mental damage Bhaal inflicted on them is gone, and that they now have a relatively powerful party that can keep then in check.

Furthermore they have the previous God of the Dead to help them break away from Bhaal’s influence.

I think a case can be made for both a resisting Durge who hates being evil, and one who hates being controlled.

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Do you need mental help, I don’t give a fuck what your personal opinion on this shit is. I’m discussing the situation, not your thoughts and beliefs on deportation or invasion.

When I mention deportation or invasion I am giving an inflated example of my point so that it can be easier to understand for dumbasses on the internet, I’m not saying you believe those examples are morally right or wrong.

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Dude, either engage this with sense of gtfo. I never said you wanted to deport people, what I did was provide an example how the settlers, no matter their coming to the island are currently the majority population, and as such have a right to self-determination and governance. What happened X hundred years ago has no bearing on that.

How thin skinned do you have to be  to be this incapable of removing your person from the conversation, I don’t care about your beliefs on deportation or anything else enough to go after ad hominem. I’m commenting on the general situation on the island, completely unrelated to you and your character.

How tf should I have know if the lore was updated or not? Again stop being so fkn combative, if you had data to share you should have just done so without all the bitching.

Exactly, a minority. 

My country has minority ethnic groups, that doesn’t mean their home countries have a right to invade and take over.

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Should we deport all Slavs back to Asia, Caucasian Americans to Europe and African Americans to Africa?

It’s good to be mindful of historic wrongs, but we must primarily ensure we don’t commit new ones. And turning the majority population of an area into second class citizens despite their express desire not to be occupied is a current wrong.

If there was a significant population of pre-Valgish denizens who were against Valgsland there would be a discussion to be had. Currently though it’s the Agnolian government actively working against people it claims to represent, and that is one of the greatest crimes a government can commit.

Ps. What is this lore, I’ve never seen anything that suggests that?

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They probably roleplay IDF soldier and palestinian refugee.

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Someone do it already, PLEASE.