u/IamTrashJT

Autistic expression.

OMG, hide you posts and comments dude. Have you ever made a single post that wasn't shit talking or expressing your negativity. Does your life sucks that bad? Grow up. Goodbye.

Mad? Again with the wild claims I see. I'm sitting at my desk and it took no effort at all. Unlike the mind juggling you have to make for every post. If it makes you happy, yes, I'm so mad I can barely stand. I'm so shaking and miserable because a dude on reddit is so mean to me. 🤣 Do you feel better?

I think it's hard because there is a sexual incompatibility and I am not seeing anything that can fix it. There is also this weird dynamic where she talks about sex and things she will do to me or wants and when we are together there is no follow through. The 'just talk' is like teasing to my RSD. I have said this and asked to just not tease or talk unless there is follow through. In doing so our sex life has dwindled. I think I might have ruined the relationship by over sharing instead of just keeping my problems to myself.

Russia trying war crimes... No... shocked - sarcasm

Message her! Whenever a woman will give you advice you should listen.

I used to think about this all the time. In Christianity there is the idea of original sin. Original sin assumes people are inherently bad by design and have to achieve goodness through faith and actions. Thomas Hobbes, who was not Christian, wrote a out something similar, but describing it as a social contract that society needed because people are inherently self-serving and violent.

Most of the philosophers I have read (Aristotle, Locke, Plato) believed we are not really good or bad but choose to be virtuous (or good) by developing habits and making good choices.

Today, we have ideas like existentialism that support the same claims as most philosophers, that we are neither good nor bad by nature and we choose to be good or bad with our actions.

However, psychology and sociology have drasticly more detailed views on the topic compared to the limited scope of philosophy—which tackles the high level conversations but has no ground work to support the claims. Psychology says trauma, parenting, societal environment and conditioning play the biggest role in determining if we are good or bad.

I think I have a hybrid view between Christianity and psychology where we are born specifically with a purpose to be a net positive in the world around us. This only happens by choice and awareness. But we also are limited by our environment and upbringing so what choice do we have in that? The hard part for me has always been getting outside my own head to try and understand someone else and their mind. I can only speak to how good and bad feel inside of me.

Focus on yourself. 100% Be selfish about you. Protect yourself and love yourself. You are awesome and unique and the world needs your actions in it.

For me, I just push through it. Keep pushing and believing it will get better. It always does get better, but always comes back around again. I'm not normal.

Love bombing is a term that is used when someone lacks emotional intelligence. Love bombing isn't bad when it's honest and not a mask.