u/Initial-Elk8607

You are not chopped, its your personality

Yes my current girlfriend is. Thats because we have communicated really well about likes and dislikes and boundaries.

There could be many things going on here, the best thing to do is to message him on Insta and tell him you had a great time and would like to see him again.

Also, let the guy do something for you like open a door for you or pull out your chair. Something! Allow him to see that you can be in your feminine and not some masculine I can do it all myself bullshit. Let hime dote on you a little bit and lead the date interaction and both of you will enjoy that.

There could be many things going on here, the best thing to do is to message him on Insta and tell him you had a great time and would like to see him again.

Also, let the guy do something for you like open a door for you or pull out your chair. Something! Allow him to see that you can be in your feminine and not some masculine I can do it all myself bullshit. Let hime dote on you a little bit and lead the date interaction and both of you will enjoy that.

This could be exactly whats going on here, have had similar experiences myself.

Let the guy either call you and Uber or take you home next time and see if that changes the outcome.

It also may be that he got off and thats all he wanted, so there is no need to move forward.

He could have a whole wife and kids back home too, or gf or something like that.

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No, but i certainly wouldnt broadcast that to them. It may come off the wrong way.

NtA at all, she made the decision to have a baby with no father, thats on her. Im telling you these single moms are just ridiculous. If you helped out when you could and even did extra because shes an idiot, then you did great and dont have to feel bad at all. Tell her mom to step up or STFU.

Seems normal for her and her father the way you described it. Seems its normalized not sexualized in that family. I think for me I would be thinking the same way you are at first. If the relationship is good I wouldnt make too big of a deal.

No, they can rent a place or even see if the team has a spot to stay at.

I would, ive got nothing to lose in being honest and may even gain something in revealing this stuff. The fact that she doesn't have you on her socials should tell you right there that this chick is playing you. I would end it even if you dont reach out to her suspected partners.

Guy is a POS, not concerned.

Oh, idk, you knew what you were doing. Quit being a baby, you knew you didn't love him at the time, and you wanted the money. STFU and get the divorce and try not to take every last penny from the dude you fucking harlette.

I think you say no and he can deal with it.

Use your tongue

Dude, your not a jerk, its your sister, you obviously don't want her doing this sort of shit just being all slutty and loose like this. I have a sister and that would be awful to have to see this shit day in and day out. Fuck these people supporting her "journey" and "exploration" of being a slut. Just getting ran through. Wow we're all so proud of you. Next stop, single mom! Now youre a single mom, just you and the baby.....

Yep! Feels/looks better

Dude, forget you heard it and move forward

NTA.

Obviously there is some stuff going on here and he needs to grow up, he should help where he can with raising the child. Id say its time for a long conversation. I also feel like you should surprise him with a BJ. Either way, he just wants attention and maybe this is his hormonal phase of pregnancy and childcare. To be honest, he is kind of acting like a woman currently.

I would quit and we can still be friends.

Ive never known anyone to get made fun of for losing it to an escort or prozzy. They did it because they are shy and embarrassed about it. After that they did just fine, just needed to get past the first time and the industry helped them out by showing them a few things

No, you are an idiot

If your feeling jealous thats just fine, dont be. She will be good a d the night will end well for everyone. Idk if I would say shes jumping through hoops for you, id like to believe she is doing this to put you at ease because she loves you. Hopefully it all worked out.