u/Johnnyfive123

Some men eat food, I eat pussy.

I 43 m recently went on a date with 30 year old asian woman. I had every intention of being a polite gentleman. During the date she was asking all of these financial questions, very inteusive stuff, she even asked if I was circumcised. Wtf…

She basically invited herself back to my house, ( I masturbated earlier in the day because I didn’t think that was a possibility) she then wanted to have intercourse. Which we did.

So, yea. It works both ways.

43/m crazy high sex drive. Private message me 🥸

You’re a terrible person. Wtf

I had the same issue. This girl was for the most part amazing, some mental health stuff that I told her we could work on together. One day she surprised me while I was watching tv and said, this is me! I freaked the fuck out. Ugh, I hate thinking about it.

I had almost the same exact thing happen. She had lots of “trauma” and we clicked so well. I really liked this girl a lot. We were only a thing for 4 months or so. We started couples therapy because we wanted to make it work so much.

We would be intimate and she would share things from her dating past. I told her I have zero issues with her talking about her deceased husband or her other relationships. I asked her to refrain from being up anything else “out side of therapy, which is the perfect place to deep dive.”

She fucking split on me after that. So frustrating. I put in so much work with her/us.

This, my ex-wife is trying to use the legal system against me. What a joke.

Do what you want. Once I get a match, I have a lot of success getting a date.

Move to text asap, don’t let them waste your time. I tell them I want to share a pic of my facial scar. It works. Also, I want to make sure they know what I look like.

I have started researching attachment styles. I divorced a wife who was narcissistic. Found a girlfriend that I thought was the bees knees. As soon as I asked her to stop bringing up her dating history (sex) was four months in, she split. She was much less financially stable than I, and I was ready to lower my quality of life for this girl. I found my first avoidant.

She treated me like a king in bed, and I think my brain just craved her attention after coming from a marriage with a narc.

Now I have been much more intentional, and want to find someone I can jive with, that also had a secure attachment style. I broke it off with several women bc they didn’t end up meeting my qualifications.

I am with a new girl now, all green flags so far, fingers crossed 🤞. I am 43 and am trying very hard to find my person.

Wooplus, some women are slightly curvy (my preference) to massively overweight. Nebraska

I was in a sexless, affection less marriage for a long time. I am 43m. I had a lot of hookups, I was so starved for sex. Then before divorce was even finalized found my first gf, that lasted about 4 months. Found a new girl I am fixing on asking to be my gf in about a week. I paid for tinder gold, and another dating app for curvy girls (paid). I was being very intentional with dating, and broke off a couple of women I was seeing bc they didn’t meet my criteria.

I am also pretty fit, cycling and weightlifting, but very average looks, and I am 5ft 8. Ymmv

Bro, I get it. My first gf after divorce was a consistent oversharer. After four months of dating, I asked her to stop bringing up her dating history. If she wants to talk about past relationships, I am cool with that. She wasn’t, and she split. Good fucking luck. She’s 42 and gets dogged by everyone. I was ready to lower my standard of living for this girl.

2 months later, found a new girl. Prettier, and is financially stable.

Tinder wtf you doing.

I take lions mane and cordeceps daily.

I’ve been on a handful of dates. Recently ended a relationship that I had during my divorce. It crashed and burned. I thought we clicked. Then went on a bunch of other dates, didn’t feel a connection. This girl I am currently seeing isn’t the most attractive, but her personality is exactly what I am looking for with a partner (she is cute af, but a bit curvier than I like, which is fixable). I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend in about a week. Oh, she is a bit inexperienced in sex stuff, so that’s fun teaching her.

43m here, found a 37f, i have two children, she has zero and doesn’t want any. I would be ok with a second marriage. Ni ambition for more children. Still have to properly sort custody with the ex wife.

Gold diggers

I had a slutty girlfriend from New Hampshire. I am sure not everyone from there is so easy. She moved here because of cost of living.

I had a four month relationship with a girl I met on tinder end. I wasn’t sure how to process it. She was great, lots of red flags, but she treated me so well. I simply asked for her not to talk about her dating history anymore. That was it, blocked me on everything. Total avoidant. Now I am back on the market, looking for someone that is emotionally available.

Try chat gpt, it has helped me break the ice on dating apps a few times.

If you’re separated, can you see other people? I am divorced now, but used tinder for hookups, shifted gears to finding a girlfriend. Pretty much clean transition once divorce was finalized. I need companionship too. With my new girl I am able to have fun, talk about my day, cook/gym together… my ex-wife was a narcissist that thought she was more important than I. I was alone when I was still married. I was ready to move on for along time.

I had lots of hookups, and found my current girlfriend with gold. She liked me, and we connected so well on our date.

My current girl is a squirter. It was strange the first time it happened to me. I don’t mind it, just gotta keep extra towels handy. And wash my beard up after the fact.

bupropion gave me a tonic clinic seizure, an ambulance ride, an mri, eeg, 3 months of not driving, anti seizure meds, and a neurologist. Hims gave me kit 5 and the topirimate gave me intense brain fog. I did lose 25 lbs, def wasn’t worth the hassle.