u/Klynch13

Same language

How old were your kids when this happened

Thank you

I only wanted two kids after I started having kids. Instead of accepting that and being supportive he used a lot of derogatory language towards me. When I talked about going on BC he told me I could go to hell for that and that I wasn’t being a Catholic and wouldn’t have sex with me possibly I realize I could’ve gone on it anyway but I was trying to make the marriage work and not make things even worse. I thought if I could do certain things his way like always let sex end in the vagina maybe just maybe he would be kind enough to give up having more kids

Instead he would tell me things like I had no back bone or is that all you can handle? You care more about working than you do about children. I know myself but when someone you love talks to you this way it certainly makes you doubt yourself

I live in Florida which I hate bc of him also ugh

Oh lord idk if I want that but yeah maybe

If he died for our sins already then why do we have suffering still? Aren’t we already saved by that logic? What’s with the waiting until heaven nonsense

Make your own choices but then you suffer for them if they aren’t the “right ones”

Makes me think it’s all bullshit lol

I don’t understand this way of thinking. If God has a plan for us why not tell us what the heck it is instead of us sitting around wondering and not knowing what to do

Awesome

Then we agree with one another ☺️

I don’t get what point you’re trying to prove that God exists or that he doesn’t

That’s my point

My point exactly she wants me to prove he doesn’t exist but I would
Love proof that he does

Can you provide and objective verifiable evidence that he exists?

Mankind made up the story. The Bible is made up by man. Jesus never wrote any of it down for us himself. All religion is a made up concept. A story to help us humans explain things and not fear death as much. I’m not trying to be mean. I believed my entire life. But after doing my best and confessing and praying and hoping and things turning out so horrible regardless I just don’t think God is real anymore. If he truly loved us he wouldn’t allow such horrible things to happen to everyone and he wouldn’t just not answer certain prayers and what not. It makes
No sense to me. It’s soul crushing believing my whole life just to realize it was all a lie

God isn’t real. Sorry

If he could intervene but didn’t makes him pretty cruel. Sorry I’m just beyond fed up

Yeah this logic is what makes me crazy. You can give a kid cancer or me an abusive husband and call it “what’s best” that’s total crap. He just isn’t fuckin real

Not really per se