u/NewOldNormal
NewOldNormal
NewOldNormal
Whatever keeps them away from real children.
NewOldNormal
OK, I suggest you sit down and grab popcorn, because I have a lot to say about this one…
Not gonna speak too much for bestiality, but I do believe that there should be at least a bit less shade thrown towards pedophiles for a variety of reasons:
First off, many of them just have the attraction and would never abuse any child. This is something that should be noted as this is going to be a major part of my discussion. Overall I feel there should be a kind of “decoupling”(for lack of a better word) of pedophilia from child molesters, because while many child molesters do indeed harbor pedophilic attractions, many more just want a sense of power, control and domination, and because of that see kids as an easy target.
Second, their social related stuff. It’s no secret that pretty much everyone hates pedophiles, almost irrationally so. And while some of it is okay(if I had kids, I wouldn’t want even a non-offender around them unless I’m absolutely sure that they’ve got enough control over their attractions to the point where they won’t do anything to them) I do feel like it should be toned down a fair bit. Not to the point where the child molesters aren’t bad anymore, but to where these non-offenders are more freely able to admit to their attractions and get help. And until this point is reached, them finding a label within which to find acceptance should be a good thing. Because of this constant hate, these non-offenders find it extremely hard to cope with their attractions, and the moment when they realize they are pedophiles is often the start to the most isolating part of their entire lives, because they suddenly realize that they have this dark secret that they absolutely cannot tell anyone about, even their most trusted friends and family, and this may eventually push them to offend by watching child porn or having sex with a child. To put this into perspective, I heard from someone else on here a while back that on one of their local radio stations, they had an interview with a non-offending pedophile. This person had everything going for him in life before. A respectable career, a loving wife, you name it. But it all came crashing down for him when he told his wife his darkest secret, thinking she could be trusted with it. In response, she ended up filing for a divorce, and kicking him out of their house, and with it, their relationship. Over time, he lost his house, his car, his job, he lost everything. All this despite the fact that he would never have sex with any child. And speaking of getting help:
It’s also hard for them to do that. Now, I’m going to be speaking from a primarily US-based perspective on this one.
It is very difficult to get therapy as a non-offender. Whenever they do try to look for it, most of the time, as soon as they tell the therapist about their attractions, they will immediately report them to the police under the US’ mandatory reporting laws. This, and the fact that it’s completely a game of chance whether you find a therapist who will help and not report you, is a very big reason why many of these non-offenders refuse to seek help. However, there is a way this could be improved. For an example, we will set our sights on Germany and it’s Project Dunkelfeld program. They offer confidential therapy for all pedophiles, whether they are offenders or not and they very rarely report to the police. Many have already found great success getting therapy through this program. While the whole “not reporting offenders to the police” part is something I disagree with, I feel that other than that, this system should be more standardized across many parts of the world, including the US. So the best thing they could do to change this would be to try to push for legislation throughout the US (or their country if they live outside the US) that allows non-offending pedophiles to receive therapy without fear of being reported to the police.
TL,DR: not all pedophiles abuse children, non-offending pedophiles have it way too rough, they should be allowed to find acceptance wherever they can, and getting help should be way easier. (the offending ones still deserve to be killed off in the most gruesome way possible)
NewOldNormal
may i ask why you were using your status as admin to cheat on r/place? covering up the r/drama logo, which doesn't break TOS, because ironically, you have "drama" with them. before you try to make excuses, where were you when the german flag was being covered by swastikas and nazi symbols? care to explain?
NewOldNormal
may i ask why you were using your status as admin to cheat on r/place? covering up the r/drama logo, which doesn't break TOS, because ironically, you have "drama" with them. before you try to make excuses, where were you when the german flag was being covered by swastikas and nazi symbols? care to explain?
NewOldNormal
Is the Chinese lawmaker responsible for this a user on r/BanVideoGames, by any chance?
NewOldNormal
hahahaha enjoy your ban
cant wait for this sub to end up the same way as your 50609040200 accounts
NewOldNormal
Unregistered HyperCam 2
NewOldNormal
Tit-fa
I honestly can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not, but for the sake of my sanity I will choose to believe you are