u/One_Combination_7906

Dating someone that is already a sub is out of question... dating someone how is into submission yes.

IRL Men submit more to the dynamic than the need...

Oh! I’m really sorry for that… that sure is not like a domme should behave! You did the right thing! And I’m sorry it still hurts… I’m sure you’ll find eventually the right domme for you and feel the same thrill again! I guarantee that we not all like that!

You feel like you have failed your domme. It’s understandable… but believe me that if she is the right kind of domme you’ve not let her down just because you couldn’t give her the phone! Sorry to insist, but have you talked to her about this?

Finding the right Domme can sometimes be difficult. It’s often a bit of trial and error. Usually, after just a few messages, you can tell whether a Domme or a sub is looking for something long-term and whether your vibes are going to match. There are definitely a lot of new Dommes who are only interested in the money, but I’m sure that if you keep looking, you’ll find someone who matches your vibe and your goals...

Always talk to your Domme. If you don’t, she’ll never know what you’re planning to do. Having several subs can be hard to manage. Expectations are always pretty high, and we can’t guess what hasn’t been communicated to us. But you can always look at it from another perspective. She has the phone, and now you can offer her something she isn’t expecting! I can guarantee she’ll love it!

Never left my Vanilla job because of this! ahaha

Myth for sure! I like people who know what they want and how they want...

Find a Domme you can trust and set a budget. A good Domme should help you manage your urges without putting you in financial trouble.

He got questioned by the parents... he just explained his view point. Should he lied to the parents when they asked why?

NTA... Her parents are... If the dor is theirs and they have ways of paying, ther should never expect her to pay. One thing would be if they have any finantial issues and were asking for help... but as OP said it is not the case... She can help if she wants, but not her responsability. You were a great boyfriend for standing up for her.

NTA... Do those parents think that their kid will never drink once he gets older?

NTAH... for asking... TAH for insisting...

NTA... If she had a dog... how can a few days be a problem?

How can you compare your maturity level to a 5? Of course she wants to be spoiled... she is 5...

NTA... How can a discount code show you are not sorry? Just because you made a mistake does not mean you have to pay full price...

Animals proving that they are better than us...

Its close enough, but i read the same as you!