u/RandomCoffeeThoughts

Sometimes you have to hit below the belt to make a point. Hey Greg, those pants are pretty tight. Good thing you have a small peen so it gives you a flat front look. The ass looks saggy though, would you like the name of my personal trainer so they can plump up that booty?

A new one can be created due to life changes. Get all your stuff together and sit dow with someone who does estate planning.

Edit... Changing to NTA after seeing the groom is selfish about how you two spend your time together.

Soft because of the timing of your process. Your friend is about to do something big and while you are focused on being a better you, he feels abandoned.

Talk to your friend and hopefully he will understand. No fault for you wanting to be a healthier you, but just the timing of it.

I think you're a bit too old for rage baiting. I don't understand why you would be that worried about how they bathe. The fact that they bathe is all that matters. The how is inconsequential. YOR

Girls rule

I can't say for certain, but you could also talk to the student loan people to set up a new payment plan or defer payment. No guarantees, but it can't hurt to ask.

You're still young. They may have returning student housing. Don't ignore that there may be scholarships. Call student admissions at the local colleges if that's what you want to do. Or you could do an online school. You can do it. :)

Obviously rage bait. What should happen is she should file for divorce.

Okay, but you need to tell him when you are and aren't in the mood to debate. He wants to do it all the time and you obviously don't. You will need to preface the conversation with... I read the article and I am not looking for a debate. Here is what I read.

Otherwise, you're going to have to speak in hard facts all the time, so he can't debate. The sky is blue, the grass is green.

This is adorable!

My elementary school teacher made me write a letter to Ronald Reagan when he was president because we had the same birthday day.

Getting a letter from the White House was pretty exciting at 8 years old. I doubt he was the one who wrote it or signed it, but still exciting back then.

Yes, I wear a wig, because I choose to. Why is it so important to YOU that other people know that?

Then just shut up and stare at them. They will get uncomfortable and then mad you made them uncomfortable, but that is the consequences of their actions.

I'm sure it looks lovely on you.

This is so gross.

This can't be real. A wedding happens once. A music festival typically happens every year. The fact that your entire family thinks her going to a musical festival is more important than attending your wedding is absurd.

If by some stretch of the imagination that that this is real, tell her to go and have a good time. If anyone asks, tell them the trust. Sister had to go to the music festival for her mental health and that was more important than being at your wedding. Done deal..

Congratulations!!!! OP, this is a major milestone, one that most people will never see. For that reason, I encourage you to keep it private, despite wanting to celebrate. Money changes people and many will automatically assume you can lend them money or finance their poor decisions. If you do share it, frame it in a way that even YOU can't touch it without severe financial consequences so that people don't automatically jump to, hey bud, spot me $10K? It's nothing to you.