u/VANcf13

Du klingst wie jemand, diesen Partner sich plötzlich und völlig unvorhersehbar scheiden lässt. Meine Güte. Dir ist schon bewusst, dass den Partner unter Druck setzen, damit er nachgibt und Sex mit dir hat schon in Richtung sexual coercion und sexuelle Gewalt geht. Klingt so als hätte man richtig Spaß mit dir.

This is insane. I was embarrassed to drop off my toddler with a slightly bloody nose once cause he fell on the way to daycare and his nose bleeds super easily during cold season. I explained and it wasn't a big deal but I can't imagine dropping him off with vomit stains and a poopy diaper. Our daycare would not accept my kiddo like that. It has happened that he pooped on the way to daycare and I went to their changing room to clean him up before doing the official drop off.

She needs to realize while getting pregnant is this huge achievement for her it just isn't a big deal for everyone else. If someone announces their pregnant it may be this huge thing for that person but it is, in fact, not that special for most people. People get pregnant all the time a lot of them unintentionally. And while that doesn't mean she can't celebrate and enjoy this as a major life event for herself, life goes on as normal for the rest of the world and she has no right to have everyone stop in their tracks for her sake.

You look great, let that stupid idiot talk. I have a natural resting bitch face and it is what it is. I think I look fine and if someone is bothered by my natural resting facial expression they can just look the other way I guess.

NDA Ich würde absolut kein Geld verleihen. Wie andere bereits erwähnt haben halte ich einen Grundbucheintrag für eine gute Methode. Allerdings halte ich die ganze Idee, insbesondere vor dem Hintergrund, dass ihr selbst lieber einen Kredit aufgenommen habt, als an eure Altersvorsorge ranzugehen, für total verrückt? Wieso sollt ihr mit den "Zinsverlusten" leben, damit die Schwester diese vermeiden kann? Finde ich ganz schön egoistisch von ihr.

Meine Empfehlung ist ABSOLUT KEIN GELD VERLEIHEN!!!!!

I was about to suggest looking into a risk reward analysis of refusing the antibiotics - it's what I did - but with the complex heart defect it's...a risk very likely not worth taking. I'm really sorry!

Ja also das mache ich auch, hätte es aber ebenso nicht zum gendern dazugezählt

Nope. Ich finde das unangenehm auf der Zunge und sehr holprig, verzichte daher darauf. Tatsächlich gendert auch keiner in meinem persönlichen Umfeld und auf Arbeit ausschließlich in offiziellen E-Mails. Sobald wir in einer Besprechung ohne höherrangige Vorgesetzte sind wird auch nicht gegendert und selbst wenn diese anwesend sein sollten auch oft nicht, weil die es auch selbst nicht tun.

Someone commented that the father got a "suspended" prison sentence and community hours, he didn't serve prison time. I assume the judge was able to be lenient (which I absolutely agree with, I couldn't say that I wouldn't at least try to take revenge if someone did this to my son). I get that vigilante justice isn't something we want in our society but I honestly can't help and feel like this dad is an absolute hero.

I'm sitting next to my two year old reading this and it's horrifying. Ever since I had my little guy it's even less fathomable how you can do something like that to a child. They're so tiny and helpless and so damn trusting and this betrayal of that trust they give us as adults is so much worse than anything else. I just want to cry for those losses.

And would you want a person who (if she really actively used it as birth control) has abortions as her number one method of birth control to be a mother?

I cannot imagine someone doing this as I found it to be a horrible and traumatic experience even though it was the best of two shitty options.

NDA Also hier im nordbayerischen Raum meine ich gibt's sogar ein paar (eine auch preisgekrönte) Konditoreien, die glutenfreie Torten bieten die wohl herrlich schmecken (ich bin leider noch nicht in den Genuss gekommen). Wenn der Typ nicht in der Lage ist leckere Torten glutenfrei zuzubereiten, sollte ers einfach lassen.

http://glutenfreie-leckereien.de/?fbclid=PAAaZ3JtL2RNIAYNQYLJRciOZXjD4FIi9ZlUHf-HsU_-jMKDMDtk0E2dKtnJo

Wäre eine denen ich auf Instagram folge, die sollen sehr gut sein, vielleicht ist das zufällig nicht weit von dir.

Hm ich weiß nicht ob ich da wirklich ein Urteil fällen kann. Aber leicht BDA

Ich verstehe absolut und finde es toll, dass du für deine Nichte einstehst und deine Schwester darauf ansprichst, manchmal fallen einem solche Dinge als Mutter selbst nicht auf.

Die Art und Weise via Familienchat finde ich meh. Also da hätte ich tendenziell eher das persönliche Gespräch in einem ruhigen Moment gesucht, anstatt sie so bloßzustellen. Als Mutter ist man oft am zweifeln, ob man sein bestes gibt etc und Kritik jeglicher Art kann da sehr tief schneiden. Wenn man sich dann an den Pranger gestellt fühlt geht man tendenziell auf Angriff anstatt sich wirklich den Inhalt der Kritik anzuhören. Ich kenne deine Schwester natürlich nicht, aber ich persönlich würde mich wohl übermäßig angegriffen fühlen (egal ob die Kritik berechtigt ist oder nicht), da ich mir unglaublich Mühe gebe mit meinen Sohn und ich auch weiß, dass ich auf keinen Fall perfekt bin etc und gerechtfertigte Kritik natürlich ok ist, aber dennoch weh tut.

You can shut up with the 100% bullshit. Like seriously. I had an IUD and got pregnant, even though it was perfectly in place. If even one of the birth control measures that is considered extremely safe fails in 6 out of 1000 women, you can fuck off with your 100% holy shit.

Also have you been pregnant? Are you aware that you're spouting extreme misinformation? If an ultrasound was so freaking accurate then why would they change the estimated delivery date so many times especially during the first trimester. The growth of the fetus is extremely unpredictable and sometimes they measure behind a week or two and then boom bigger than expected. You definitely sound like you're a man who has very little experience or only his own partner to determine what the "truth" is.

Being a woman who was childfree but ended up with an oopsie baby, I agree. I'm absolutely sure I would have had an incredibly fulfilled life without my son. But also, my son is awesome and he adds this kind of love to my life I otherwise would not have known but also he adds fear, stress and grief to my life I otherwise would not have known.

I full support everyone who chooses to not have kids as I absolutely understand it. You also can't miss a person that doesn't exist, so you don't really "miss out" by not having a child imho.

Or he's insanely ADHD. It seems like a familiar pattern of procrastination. I'm not making an excuse. ADHD is ABSOLUTELY NOT an excuse for things like this but it can be a starting point to figure things out if this is a reoccurring pattern happening. Definitely not saying he didn't fuck up as I would be insanely mad at my husband for this.

This is bullshit if I've ever heard any.

I used to want kids sooo bad when I was 18, I was sure, if I hadn't found a man by 30 I'd go for artificial insemination. In my 20s I realized I really didn't want kids. Being pregnant and giving birth and dealing with an infant sounded horrible. Then a surprise pregnancy happened and I was sure I'd abort. But I ended up keeping the pregnancy. Then I was sure I'd definitely be one and done and so was my husband and then my IUD failed. I was sure I'd absolutely never have an abortion. But I did. Now I'm at a point where a second child might be an option my husband now is convinced he'd want a second kid down the line. We might have one as I'll maybe come around, or not. I don't know.

And I'm allowed to change my mind and so is my husband. How sad would our world be if people weren't allowed to change or change their minds or opinions on things. There would be absolutely no growth and we would be stuck in our old ways forever.

I hope you will be able to see this or you'll have a sad sad life.