Debbie. Where did all the Debbie's go?

Genista broom moth caterpillar No touchy!

sicced my 50+ crows on him and his cars - seriously

he eventually apologized after about 2 years of crow shit, divebombing, and CAAAAAWWWWing = and now he puts out food for my crows for me when I'm out of town

my crows generally chase them off before they reach the door.

I also have a door mat that says "trespassers and solicitors will be eaten"

carpet beetle. Put it outside as it's a pollinator.

It's the larvae that cause damage to fibers, the beetles just eat and look for love.

He was. He hit on me after a show and I was literally a foot taller than him, but he was so pretty!!

A guy I dated off and on wanted something more serious and I wasn't sure I did. I was thinking about breaking up with him, but agreed to "go away" with him for a weekend to see if we could work on it. He said he's set it up and I'd never forget it!

He chartered a private plane and rented an ocean front villa in Puerto Vallarta!!!!. I know the plane alone was more than $20k.

I married someone else and the last time I heard, the money spender dude also has a husband...🤷🏻‍♀️ I knew there was something about him that didn't work for me, but didn't even suspect he was gay (or bi).

C'est la vie!

There's no way to fix DWD. I'm sorry

an opossum. Their tails don't show up in night vision/IR. We have them on our cameras every night!

I bought mine one of these and they love it!

https://preview.redd.it/gircp59qavxh1.png?width=1500&format=png&auto=webp&s=bc3e835e30a1737a88ef4d9dd6b18c8094bb0726

Again, I'm going to ask what his therapist says. Who diagnosed him? What was his treatment? Is he continuing therapy (or did he ever even do it?)

I think you're throwing around a clinical diagnosis when there likely isn't one from an actual medical professional.

Do what you want, but you can't mold a person into one that you want. They existed before you.

Don't marry this person just because you want to be married.

I've been married 30+ years. I'm not unfamiliar with marriage and what it takes to keep the love alive and growing.

Uh, I'm a married woman.

You need serious help - I'm good.

You do seem sort of preoccupied with masturbation though - you've said:

"the gooners"

and

"...Put down the vibrator ..."

Maybe you should give your therapist a call? Good luck!

Then maybe he should go back and talk with his Therapist. I mean is he constantly watching porn all day, or going to strip clubs daily or what? I simply think you're insecurity is at play here, not his sexual deviancy.

(I am a woman, btw - married 30+ years - not a "gooner" whatever that is)

is he? He doesn't seem very big when he's not being Dunk. My hubby is 6'5" and Peter looks about the same size?

In my mind, Beast is VERY LARGE

you're not being "attacked" You asked if you were overreacting, you ARE. VERY MUCH.

You don't say how old you are, but I can only assume you're very young and have never had a healthy relationship with partner.

You are trying to create the person you want out of a person that already exists. People only change if they want to and your RULES are nuts.

Sorry.

YOR

What the fuck? I've been married to a wonderful man for more than 3 decades and we live on a 40 acre ranch. I fuck my actual, human husband and touch more grass than you've ever seen!

Read the other comments, looks like YOU'RE the crazypants - not me

This woman wants to control this man for whatever reason and uses bullshit excuses to try.

Clearly you're not married or your spouse divorced you because you suck. 😆🤘🏻

he probably said that because you said, " I HATE porn, animated or real and have never enjoyed watching it.." You say "no shame to those that watch it" yet here you are, shaming him.

I hope he takes a good look at his life before he actually marries you. You're not wife material IMO. You want to be his mama and tell him how to live his life.

Yikes.

who diagnosed his "porn addiction"? You? Because you don't like him watching porn does not make him an addict.

You sound VERY controlling and the idea of getting married to someone you want to change and control is a terrible idea. If you don't think he's good enough for you now, what do you think will change? You making rules for him is ridiculous. He's a fucking adult. (right? you guys aren't like 17, are you? You act like it...)

YOR

"they" who? That phone number goes nowhere. He doesn't have Ukrainian man's number.

Card company is the only way

Louis Cipher.

nor is he large enough...

I don't think he's big enough! Beast is HUGE, not the same size as my husband AND son (well, son is closer to 6'6", but still...)

They could maybe make him large enough via AI/CGI I suppose.

You were scammed, dude. Green Cab is closed:

New Green Cab (also known as Green Cab & Green Shuttle) in Portland, Oregon, is closed.

Business Details (Historical / Former)

• Status: Closed
• Former Address: 10118 E Burnside St, Portland, OR 97216
• Former Phone Number: (503) 234-1414
• History: Operated as a driver-owned local company starting around February 2017 after taking over Green Transportation

Talk to your card company - that dude is gone.

Eltopia, WA.

HAD to get gas there. Do not recommend - 1/10. The hills have eyes there.

We were just talking about this, as my FIL died last week.

My will actually says: "...remains will be cremated, but there will be no memorial, no urn, no service and the ashes will not be interred. Scatter me to the winds, plant me with a tree or put me in the trash - it does not matter, as I'm dead"

I'd actually prefer a sky burial, but my husband is the registered Native, not me. We have filed the forms with his tribe to have a sky burial for him though - I'm very jealous of this!