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Als je zonder kantoor wil werken is ondia.be zeker de moeite om eens te checken. Ik denk wel dat je zelfstandig moet zijn, weet niet of ze interim doen. Is een app waar je zelf ziet waar er shifts openstaan.

Indeed the kids lose. It’s just sad only a rigid schedule makes it work

Thanks for your reply. I really hope communication will get better but at this point, it’s the least worst solution. Good luck to you too.

Thanks. Maybe to add to the context: I went to a therapist to help me through the grief of my lost relationship.

I’m honest to say I’m quite far in that process, it’s still uneasy to see her in her depressed form, she looks or speaks nothing like I remember her, but I’ve let go. I’m okay with the fact she’s gone, I accept her decision and the consequences in my life.

I dare to say I genuinely care about my new girlfriend. She was surely a rebound in the first months but after that I consider it to have become a real relationship, I gradually introduced her to friends, family, kids,..

But yeah, maybe the biggest struggle is for me to figure out what I want or need in a relationship. i’ve never dated as 30+ with kids before with all that complexity related.

I could guess you lack a clear internal responsibilities-system. We had a time that when a colleague had a question, didn’t knew who to answer it so just bother everyone searching for the one daring to pick it up and making a decision about the issue.

Maybe also consider working less asynchronous and have small recurring meetings with the right people so they got a place to lose their non-urgent stuff in a agenda and no longer bother each other every minute.

A good exercise that helped us was the RACI-model.

I assigned a shortcut to it that opens a text input. I type something and after that I get to choose what to do with the text: add to reminders, grocery list, note or even add it as a task in my Notion database. This way, I’m able to add something to a specific place in less than a few seconds

I searched for this a while too but couldn’t find a way.

True that 🙏

Stick to the plan but foremost listen to your body. If you have a 15k run and after 2k you feel your body is off, just turn around and give yourself rest. You could be becoming sick, being tired, bad resistance etc.

Give it tags?

So you just type “timer” in spotlight and can set a timer from there? Not working for me..

My guess is that’s Ultra only

How realistic is it they will release Tahoe in september, maybe on the iPhone event?

Ik mis mss ook wel meer context. Aanwezigheid is zeker een goeie parameter maar kunnen we bv ook het aantal wetsvoorstellen of parlementaire vragen in beeld krijgen? Ik heb misschien liever een lid die iets minder aanwezig is maar wanneer deze aanwezig is, vragen stelt of voorstellen doet. Als je de beelden soms ziet van de aanwezige leden..

I had this talk with her a few times. She acknowledges this is something new for her and she tries work on it. But even there, it sometimes feel like she has “to force herself” to be open about emotions and it feels more like something she does to “comply” with my expectations, rather than that she feels the need herself.

I’m trying to be honest about how I feel, but more than often she hears this as a judgement or critic about her, where I just wanted to vent about something. So rather than I she comforts me in my feelings, I have to invest in her and reassure she did not wrong.

Gift cards: when I receive one, I add it to reminders with the expiration date and a 2 week early reminder. Never end up with expired gift cards anymore ✌️

Darn, I’m too late

I think there is a lot of context missing here to make judgment calls like some here do. First of all: do you genuinely believe you could trust her again? I don’t say you have to trust her already, I think you should secure your own boundaries, but do you believe at some point, the wounds could get healed over time? If the answer feels as a “no” now, you probably should save your and her time.

She’s probably been avoidant which is a really bad thing that happens in relationships. Open communication is the best starting point and requirement you should put on table when you consider a new chapter.

I think we all deserve some credit on being avoidant. We probably all have been avoidant in some way or another in a relationship. Yes it’s bad and can be harmful but yes it’s also a human coping mechanism. It’s existence is not to harm you, but to defend yourself.

It’s a fair opportunity to explore what’s possible. Set your boundaries, be honest to yourself and her.

Spending is more out balance than the “rich”. I think every member of society should contribute proportionate to its possibilities and yes some fiscal mechanisms are not fair. But let’s look to where the money is going before we look where to get new money. I think we really should question our own expectations as citizens too and how realistic they are. We are in a inverted demographic pyramid. There are more people who don’t work than there are working. And its growing increasingly.

Still, we expect that government handles every situation for us. No work? Sick? Pregnancy? State of the art infrastructure? Public transport? Retirement We expect all these things to be paid by government.

Besides that, bring 10 people in mind you know. Think of how many of these get paid by government, directly or indirectly. Think of officials, teachers, nurses,.. all are paid by government but hardly add up on economic growth, directly.

The “rich” you are eager to tax are the one that actually bring in the economic growth to keep paying all of above.

Lost 33 pounds and ran a marathon 6 months later. 🤘 Just started focus on a thing in the future, you can control. The past may hurt but doesn’t matter any longer.

I was here 1 year ago. I don’t need another year like that but I can honestly say it make my grew like a person a lot. and for all those here with recent breakups, yes, let it hurt. But also see it as an opportunity to learn about your emotions, behaviour, values, and yes your mistakes. Be kind for yourself. You are the most important person in your life, not he/she.

Terecht standpunt. Ik denk dat maatschappelijk draagvlak een belangrijke factor is en het aantal ondertekenaars in de petitie kan hiervoor indicerend zijn. Maar inderdaad, als we elk stukje geschiedenis willen houden kunnen we na verloop van tijd nergens nog iets doen.

Yes..

Correct!

Er zijn middelen begroot om erfgoed te behouden. Er is dus enkel wat goodwill nodig bij de juiste mensen. Uiteraard moet de eigenaar van het terrein vergoed worden.

Het is toch wel een tweetal meter diep hoor, meestal niet de diepte voor een fundament van een rijwoning. De foto is inderdaad wat misleidend over de diepte.