u/bubbusbee

I'm a lesbian too, my wife is a very cis presenting nonbinary person who fully believed she was cis before we were even together. I had just started HRT when I first met her and I'm currently off HRT due to financial reasons. Am I lucky to have a fairly androgynous face? Sure. But one thing I can tell you is this. My wife is almost fully a lesbian. The only men she finds attractive are fictional. I, as a soft butch trans woman, have quite a bit of body hair, not just on my legs and arms, but on my belly and breasts as well and my wife doesn't see me as any less of a woman because of it for one simple fact: Cis women can also grow body hair in those places, cis women can even grow facial hair sometimes. There is no perfect definition of a woman for the same reason there is no perfect definition of a man, because everyone is different in some way.

TLDR: if I found love, there's hope for all of my pre-op, pre-hrt siblings to find love ♥️

no, but not because i'm biphobic or anything, i'm just happily married to an amazing woman

Yes! and I succeeded!

My wife and I are both on the thicker side, but they're far more fit than I am, though I have a mostly invisible disability, being active is hard for me in general. Either way, I'm pretty chunky and she's like... perfect thick physique... I mean WOW. They love my body even though I don't and I love her body even though she doesn't, sometimes that's the way it goes.

Also, some people don't have eyes for body types, it's really just dependent on the person.

gods forbid i ever get divorced, but if that were to happen, i could never go back to dating neurotypical people, our brains are just a little too different for my tastes, luckily my wife is neurodivergent, so it works out

sent a friend request on discord~!

I think most folks are based in america, but I have a weird sleep schedule and tend to be on at pretty odd hours.

yes, the preference is that kids need not join

this actually abusive behaviour from her OP, you're NTA.

Where were you Jan 6th?