u/cagednuseless

As someone who has experimented with flat\inverted and ultimately led to a kidney infection...agreed.

I've spent the past month locked in a steel knockoff baby cobra and I haven't had to unlock at all for cleaning or trimming, can urinate super easy and effectively and had zero health issues with it

Inverted\flat is hot for a short session, but it's seriously just not feasible for 24\7. Anyone telling you otherwise is unlocking for bathroom breaks because it's seriously impossible to effectively void the urinary tract of urine otherwise which will lead to UTI and ultimately kidney infection

That is what I tried to pitch to her but she isn't open to being dominant

Yeah I talked to her a bit this morning and she isn't amused.

She thinks the cage is what makes me so horny all the time (which, part of it is) and not her herself...which, she isn't entirely wrong. This whole month has mostly been me topping from the bottom, if you will, because she hadn't really done anything to "tease and deny" me.

The way I framed it was, "you make me horny, the cage just amplifies it because there's no easy out to just go and stroke anymore." But, she can't expect me to be turned on by her when she makes no effort to do it herself and then blames the cage. Which I also expressed to her. I was like send me pics of your tits or ass, or a video of you playing with yourself while I'm at work, hell even unlock me and get what you need from my cock and choose whether or not I get to cum. All these things take little to no effort and there's nothing physically stopping her from doing them. But she just tells herself "I've always been submissive and it's just not in me" but yet the first year of our relationship she always used to do that stuff (the pics and vids and such)

Oh 1000%...99.5% of "Dommes" today are half-assed OF girls who just see people like us as easy cash and make little to no effort for what you pay for. Nobody does this shit for the lifestyle anymore and if they do, they are usually not a good fit or want an actual relationship out of it

I think I was always bi-curious with years of anal play and sissy stuff before chastity...chastity just ramps it up even moreso

Look up the pipedream-king cock 9"

It's curved and about 2.1" diameter and about 7.5"-8" insertable. It is my go-to and never fails to fuck the cum out of me

First one, then the other

Marry this woman

I went with steel myself. I have some experimenting to do with the butt strap portion. If I wear a plug it's really tight, especially when bending over. I may need to add some male-snaps to make it "adjustable" to allow for extra room with the plug so when bending over it doesn't unsnap. But otherwise so far so good and it's kinda nice not being stretchy because it really keeps erection attempts at bay too

Ugh every time I see Poke's clips I get so jealous, I need that too

So the larger snaps ended up being a little irritating by the end of the day yesterday, but like I said they hung off the ends of the strap by about 1\16" on each side so it's kinda to be expected.

I DID however get my smaller snaps this morning and made a new strap with them and it's WAY better already. So yeah, ⅜ width strap with 8-8.5mm snaps is the ticket for sure!

This right here is the ticket

If only

Better learn how to eat pussy...

I eat my gf out every day, sometimes twice a day. No more cumming before she does. Speaking of cumming, wanna learn how to have the best orgasms you'll ever have? Buy her a strap on lol. Once she sees how eager you'll be to worship her without your cock, you, well...she won't need it anymore.

Honestly though, your best bet is to talk to her. Communication is the foundation of any D\s dynamic and just because certain things work for others, doesn't mean they'll suit your situation. This is a conversation the two of you will need to have and research together

Heavy diesel mechanic\shop foreman, I'm in panties, waist trainer and sometimes a garter and stockings underneath.

Full femme when my gf is out though

Take an edible, give it an hour and then go lay down with some headphones on

I'm kinda still doing a trial run so as far as the exposed tip, time will tell there. I'd imagine when the outer shell is molded to it it may "seal" the webbing in a sense but I'll be up front, I am not an expert lol.

I DID do the standard thickness and it hasn't been an irritant so far in the almost 12hrs Ive been wearing it today.

This is purely experimental at this point lol

Ugh I dream of the day my gf gets the courage for us to go to some munches and meet some Domme girls so she can be like "babe, we are gonna have a three way with another girl, buuuuut not the way you think..." Lol

So Ive been locked 24\7 since the beginning of October, but I've been getting fucked by my girlfriend and solo toying and leaking\spurting from being fucked...does that count before I vote?

I like the 3-points because they help keep plugs in during the day myself. But I also make my 3 point butt strap removable for when my gf wants to peg me or I play solo and ride my dildos

Definitely wasn't a real biothane one. Biothane has an inner webbing and a tensile strength rating of typically 1000lbs per inch of width. So technically this 3\8" strap should have a 300lb rating or so...I don't think there's an erection strong enough to break that lol

My only goof-up was when I ordered the snaps, I didn't pay close attention to the dimensions of the snaps and when I saw 5\16" I assumed it was overall width...nope. overall width of my snaps is 9\16" and it juuuust overhangs the strap on either side so I used pliers to fold the sides over. I'm going to order some 8.5mm width snaps at some point from Amazon and either drill these out and replace them or just make a new strap since I have about 20 or so feet of material left.

I wanna feel every inch of it Daddy

Of course!

No problem! Always trying to find ways to make locking up more comfortable and permanent without resorting to things like breaking keys or gluing cages lol