u/cfalayon

Photographs of the person i like that only contains some part of it's body (neck, hand, curves of the other parts) with or without clothes in different spaces.

The issue is: the GF tried to watch more porn and masturbate with it because the BF really enjoys watching. She does not feel good about porn even before they started dating and the topic was always difficult for them to talk with each other. Sometimes he even said to her he doesnt want to talk about it ever again with her and that she should never bring this topic again if she want to give importance to the good parts of the relationship. She tried and tried but continue to feel bad about it. Then at the sex, she gets caught sometimes comparing her performance with the pornstars perfomance. The BF told her she should study more to be more sexual sensual to him. The issue is. She does really wants to feel better about porn and not bad as she does. He does want her to.be more satisfying and better at making him want her.

She or he?

No im not a troll im just having issues with my partner and trying to talk to people see if they can help

Yes i do told her what i like dude i like more the preliminaries then the sex it self

The relationship strated 2 years ago. He just said it now but said it like this is always been there. She never had problem with this before, actually quite the opposite. Other guys always said how she was good at sex and blowjobs and stuff

Suggestions or ideas how ?

Sexuality... like she cant get him wanting her when she does wants him

Yes. People have problem making gusy horny

Just trying to understand the logic.... if he does watch porn and she doesnt like and feel bad about and he comes to her and say she is not being sensual enough. But is she loves him and want to try to change and to be more sensual to be more tolerant... its not about agreeing with porn. That shit will exist no matter what is more like she does not feel good about it even if she does want to

So just copy the pornstar girls?

U have any video or reference to help her know how to do that?

Nice point! U think its biological or social construction effect?

Thank you so much im reading this and really thinking about it. To give u a proper answer thanks for ur honest opinion

Thats a good answer. But if they do have tolerance and willing to change in other aspects but not porn? Which one should they consider?

But if the GF does not feel good or even feel bad when she tried watchinf porn?

Maybe she would prefer to understand why he does love pornography so much in his life... and also she would prefer to not feel this way. She does not feel like pornography is wrong but she consider that not all porns are helping womens to feel good about them selfs . She has some friend that already were sex workers and that brought a lot of mental health issues for them so she does have some references that is hard to escape from when she imagine him beeing horny with a video that maybe the person on it do feel bad about it . He thinks that pornography is aeasy way of making money for women and that its better for those girls make porn and earn some money that do not have food to eat.

About watching it and about her BF watching it

The GF is trying to not feel bad about porn, so why she should feel good about it? How can i help her?

I just want to understand how u think its easy to let someone u love walk away of your life because of one issue like porn

For sure she is feeling blamed . The BF has been saying she will never find a man who does not watch and like porn

Okey so just be a babybean instead