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Unemployment has stayed relatively the same with a slight dip in recent months. I wouldn’t lose hope in finding a full time job if I were her.

It also helps to include the experience she’s gaining in the part time job, or even a reference if you’re cool with someone, on the resume itself, if that’s not already being done.

Try to look up active solutions in interviewing, and things to work on with her (practice interview), to boost her confidence.

It’s hateful to say that there’s a hell and we would go there.
It’s hateful to say that women don’t get equal rights because of religion.
It’s hateful to anyone not the same “color” as you as they are the “enemies” defined in its texts.
It’s hateful and atrocious to commit the acts that religion deems worthy.

Your friend is right.
Religion is the crux of humanities hatefulness in the world and is what’s keeping us from advancing.
Organized religious faith as a concept is nothing but a cancer.

No need to tell anyone, it’s not their business. You need to go to the hospital if you’re this cognizant and this close to the self harm incident.

Things will get better, you’ve seen the worst. I recommend being out in nature after the hospital. Hiking, walking, running. Anything outside. Keep going.

Hold onto C and show her how much you appreciate her support by taking care of yourself.

Holy shit I thought she died when I read your title.

She’s most likely processing your texts and needs more time, or she really has moved on, either way, don’t send anymore apologies. Two well thought out and sincere apologies are fine, if you want to talk more talk on the phone like you said. If she’s not open to that, there’s your answer.

Keep focusing on your career and don’t lose sight on your ambitions because of a bad break up. Don’t want to fuck up your career and relationship over the same mistakes.

Therapy also doesn’t hurt anyone in processing your decisions. Good luck.

Half true imho.
Finding someone you click with still involves asking someone out eventually. If that doesn’t work, and you try again with someone different, you are asking out multiple people until you really connect with someone.
There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as someone is putting in the effort on themselves like you mentioned.

That isn’t disrespectful.

“Let yourself think” isn’t a thing, thoughts can float it and out of your head at any moment you’re not letting them do anything.

Your quote is not what I read in the post.

Your views and the views of practically this entire comment section are so myopic you refuse to see things any other way.
There’s another group of people who very much resemble all of you and they disgust me the same way you all do.

You guys need this guy’s therapy hours.

The level of inner peace needed to achieve the feeling of never having romantic affection for anyone would take decades to master. That would be nothing but solitude, inner reflection, and whatever way someone stays as physically healthy as possible.
Bottom line, it’s not an option.

Your best option, if the sexual frustration is that bad, like really that bad, is to hire a sex worker. Save up and make it a day about you and what you want.

Definitely do therapy and keep putting yourself out there if a relationship is that important. Don’t be embarrassed or afraid to try different hobbies/interests. The kind of thing you’re looking for will happen eventually.

And dishonesty sucks, that lady who hurt you isn’t worth your time or griefing yourself over.

How old are you?
Do you live in a red or blue state?

I’m going to respect the person. We aren’t in the US government, we can respect these women regardless if they are doing a job for you or not. You might not understand that depending on the above answers.

“Buying sex is an exchange of money for goods” dude get fucked, they are still people that have emotions.

“you bought the grocery store is delusional” again, you are comparing, what exactly? People to objects?

I know what side you’re on. I’m done listening to stupid.

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you fuckers do not know how to answer a question on this website. (for those that comment just offended,
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see the gif)

They are equally unlikely you incel, not delusional. You don’t know what delusional means.
I’m going to assume you’re an incel the same way you’re assuming what the agreement actually is. Agreements are not just an exchange of money.
I don’t know where you’re getting your info dude but it’s not in real life or in the post.

Damn, that’d be something. But more than unlikely, that’s way too risky to lose that paper over.

Hey. Big guy. Just read that whole thing. YOU don’t know anything about the agreement and neither do I. He’s saying the agreement isn’t as set in stone as you’re assuming it is. None of the sb/sd arrangements are. It’s not fucking written down. There’s no fucking written rules.

Inauthenticity is somehow an acceptable accusation on Reddit against this guy because he wants things to change? Genuinely, how the fuck is that inauthentic?

Amazing. Can only be seen on Reddit, in the same sentence he says “no offense” and proceeds to personally attack lmao gotta love it.
And another “Gen Z grandmaster” in dating to boot. YouTube?! Fucking really dude?!

It’s like no one in this comment section actually had fun or has actually lived a little.

To the commenters:
First off: There’s wayyy too many religious comments spouting sanctimony and “traditional values”. What the fuck does that even mean? Who the fuck are you to spout tradition in this country built on freedom of religion and a mix of cultures?? Where the fuck are my heathens at??

Secondly: One dude, where is the dipshit, u/Cultural-Pen-4-Men, yeah you’re not a therapist. Don’t be spouting things like “you’re always right when challenged therefore…” when you are literally trying to prove yourself right when challenged. Would any therapist do that? Would any adult, who’s not a piece of shit, give the advice that they can’t do themselves?

Lastly: this dude picked the wrong place to ask advice, clearly. This subreddit doesn’t have wisdom, they have a hive mind of opinions and anyone who strays is immediately shunned. Let the guy spend his money, why the fuck not?

I feel this is disingenuous. Women don’t choose based on 6’0 height as much as people think. They want the guy to be taller is more accurate, but most say it’s not that important. I personally don’t understand the importance.

In fiction? Not necessarily. That’s not taking into account the characters own natural strength, which is multiplied by an unknown factor of the prosthetic’s strength.
In real life? Yeah, probably. Because advanced prosthetics haven’t come a long way in the last 30 years, so they would get ripped off.
The dude has mechanical arms that provide an unknown amount of strength. Utilizing that strength, and using all the force necessary to lift the boulder in your arms only, is possible.

You can lift something heavy using just your arms in real life. It’s just more difficult.

Maybe add what prosthetics and fake arms in comics, or superhero films, that do make sense to you in the post.

If we’re getting real technical with prosthetics, nanotechnology shouldn’t create the amount of pre-tensile strength needed in your body to punch a thing like Thanos and make him bleed, nor is it durable enough to take multiple hits.

This is all still escapism, it’s not meant to be super real, just super cool looking most of the time.

Went to high school with Klay Thompson before he left to play in college. I skipped class to play him because it was a once in a lifetime opportunity, everyone knew he would make it to the league back then.

I couldn’t guard him due to the mismatch in size and his shooting ability was off the charts, but I was as fast as he was.
They aren’t mythological athletes like Achilles brought to life. They’re just really tall, really good at handling the ball, and shoot like the hoop is 4 feet wide.

If you’re trying to get that technical, prosthetic arms in real life don’t require much back or leg muscles to achieve feats of strength.
I’m sure inertia, the energy to power it, and the quality of the material used to make the prosthetic or attached arm also play a major role in what it can do in real life, but where’s the fun in that.
Once fiction gets broken down into technicalities none of it makes sense.

Hard pass. GenZ followed in the boomers footsteps. They could’ve learned from us, but their own nihilism and racism made them choose not to.

Based on this post, it is avoidant attachment by definition. I’m sure there’s a lot more to it than that, though.
Possibly, to your last question. Depends on the person, and how low someone can feel before they self sabotage.

It’s definitely not the epic storytelling of some of the main story arcs in Green Lantern comics emerald twilight (did everyone forget Hal dies in the comics too), sinestro war, blackest night, brightest day, but for what it is, it’s a very good depiction of having Green Lanterns in the real world and a great beginning. Really liked the lack of CGI (which is now the lack of AI) in the show.

“Fight for the next several decades”
I think I speak for most millennials with kids within the family, I’m more than willing to fight for as long as it takes for Generation Alpha.
Cersei Lannister was unfortunately right about this one, when backed into a corner by religious fanatics, what did she say?

You 👏 go 👏 out 👏 side 👏 and 👏 find 👏 a 👏 noth 👏 er 👏 girl 👏 to 👏 talk 👏 to. And remember that you’re enough not your money.