u/eilonwe

Good luck with your wedding, but I agree on cutting your mom off. Just say that, on reflection, you just don't want her negativity there. conditional invitation rescinded. Then block her. Hopefully, your sister will find the means to leave that toxic environment soon.

NTA. Sometimes you have to let burnt bridges stay burnt. Your mom didn't protect you and is used to being the peacemaker. She wants everyone to get along and that just can't happen when your father is such a narcissistic Ahole. How cold of him to kill your dog, you know he knew it would hurt you. I think you are absolutely right in going no-contact after all he's done. And the fact he can't or won't ever apologize - and the fact that your mom won't either is all the proof you need to let them both go into your past. Go no contact and heal. Heal yourself, enjoy your life. Become the person they are not. And if you ever have children do your darndest not to turn into your parents. Be parent you wish you had had growing up.

We need nurses too much, so I agree, you’d probably have to cover them unless you can claim cultural/religious significance. Most hospitals have dress codes about hiding tattoos, but things are starting to change around them. Good luck with your nursing journey!

I did that but although it says my phone is connected by Bluetooth, carplay still doesn’t work. I’ve reset the car, updated my ios, restarted phone and car and tried a different cable. Nothing seems to work. The phone is charging though, so I’m not sure that problem is my usb port. Any other ideas? I’m in a 2018 Kia Niro

I had a GM one time who had an eight sided dye and the lowest number on it was 479! Piss him off, and that was the one D8 that he rolled for damage to your character!

At least it’s not pronounced the way it’s spelled. No, it’s not lanah! Its pronounced elayenayaych!

But wouldn’t D encompass all of the above?

MAJOR red flags 🚩🚩🚩OP. Break up, block his number and get away. You were not dressed provocatively, the atire was appropriate. His threats, are not to be taken lightly. And now he wants you to delete old vacation photos too? Nope. Sorry. Bye!! You don’t have time for that insecure & contolling behavior. Get out while you can. He’ll be sorry he lost you.

Every state has an elder abuse hotline, I suggest you use it.

It’s a very minor difference of pronunciation, like to-may-to or to-mah-to. Not many people would have noticed it, if you hadn’t pointed it out, and if someone (or even you) had mentioned it AFTER the ceremony it would’ve been funny. Instead, you embarrassed her for no reason. Alot of nervous brides and grooms stumble over saying their vows even when reading them. YTA.

Hilarious how he’s saying he’s worth so much more, and that you are embarrassing… and yet he doesn’t use punctuation and talks like a tween.

And that’s agood andwer for anyone immigrating to anywhere. Respect the country, culture and people of the country giving you asylum, or leave.

I'm sorry, but you Are TH. She gave you a choice of just being a guest and wearing whatever you want. But you want her to change her vision to let you wear something you want that doesn't fit her vision. I mean, at least changing the bridesmaids' outfits to include a veil that could provide similar cover to a Hijab wasn't completely out of her vision for her wedding. But you want something, I don't know what, something mundane and boring? She has the right to say no. This is her day. And you should not judge her for it. Very likely, her kids will grow up loving the same things their parents do, and they will think their parents were cool for being "weird". Still, it's YOUR choice, if you are willing to throw away your friendship because you can't stand to be uncomfortable for one day, wearing something that will make your friend happy. No, you want her to be uncomfortable and unhappy with whatever you want to wear as a bridesmaid in HER wedding. Wrong priorities, OP. Very wrong priorities. Because this wedding is a union and blessing of their happy, strange souls, and you have no right to judge what gives them joy and brings them meaning to their special day.

NTA. I know you want to help her, because you did say she just got out of an abusive relationship. But you are correct, it is YOUR HOUSE, your rules. PERIOD. So, NO, Sis. I love ya, but you can't have my youngest child's room and you knew that when you moved in. Don't like the couch? You can move out and start paying rent for your own private space. otherwise, be grateful you are not sleeping on the streets.

NTA. Sir, you had EVERY right to ask for no cheese in that meal. But you didn't say ANYTHING until all was said and done, and then you also called to bless out OP? ok. well, you're getting no home cooked meals for 10 days and you will have to pay for your own take out. And, you deserve to sleep on the lumpy couch.

ok, well, she just needs a parking space, not a spot where she can secure her car with a garage door, so why couldn't she just permanantly leave the garage door up and park her car in her own garage? And put a better lock on the garage door (like a deadbolt) on the that led into the house from the garage? seems like an easy fix that doesn't interfere with other people's ability to use the space they paid for. But yes, I agree with towing her car. Your not TA.

In my opinion, you have every right to build a fence, because honestly, if I had young children I wouldn’t want a neighbors dog just wandering onto my property. Dogs can be territorial, and I wouldn’t want your neighbors dog attacking your children because they were in “his yard” - since neighbor says dog is used to roaming both yards as his territory. The dog will adapt to the use of his own, properly his, yard. And grumpy neighbor can just be grumpy. You are building the fence for your children’s safety. People take precedence over entitled pets. Sorry not sorry.

Dog bites need to be reported because the dog should have been quarantined for rabies screening and a paper trail made about its violent behavior. I agree, you need a lawyer. Verbal agreements are no guarantee that they will keep their word to pay you for everything. I’m so sorry about your dog!

The federal minimum wage for tipped employees is $2.13 per hour, but if their tips combined with this wage do not equal the full federal minimum wage of $7.25 per hour, the employer must make up the difference. In actuality, I’ve never seen a company do this. I’ve also seen the wait staff being made to pay for a skipped out tab out of their tips which is illegal but common.

I am planning a medieval feast and would like to include Eritrean (specifically) but other regional dishes. I'd love to do something with chicken. a dish that is not spicy and one that can be. I see some talk about spices but no recipes. Can anyone share recipes or websites for recipes?

Ok, so one main issue with censorship is certain parties trying to limit what people can read/hear/see/learn. Knowledge is power and ignorant people are easily deceived/abused/taken advantage of. It’s one reason why the poor were not ALLOWED to learn to read and write, but royalty and clergy could, because then the poor would just have to take their word for it about laws and taxes.

But, censorship can also be used to protect people from abusive content, false information, etc. used correctly, it can be a useful tool.

However, I think these days people want to censor things because they are too lazy to actually parent their children, and then when things happen they want someone or something to blame.