u/famjam87

457 post karma · 9,383 comment karma · joined Mar 2022

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I love that i feel connected to so many posts. And i find myself wondering if i should post here often

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I have decided for myself to never buy bottoms without functioning pockets again. I am debating implementing it for my 3 daughters, oldest is 7. She's in board unless they are suuuuuuuuujper comfy sweat pants

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1st time i let my kids outside (5 and 7 ) in the front while i had my 5 month old napping. They were outside for 15 minutes or less. I checked on them once by going outside and probably 3 times out the window. 10 minutes later the police knocked on my door to say they had a call that they were playing really close to the busy street. Which they were not. It had such a negative impact on me and their outside time.

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Bark watch

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Move away

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Did you have to go ama?

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Update me!

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Update me!

And give your love elsewhere

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Update me!

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I suggest you read whatever your wife has been reading it might clue you in

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My sister made a badge for water supervisor for vacation, because when multiple adults are there and playing with kids people get relaxed

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Closer to that beautiful woman movie than grandma. It looks great

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So good

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Even if you could handle that, can you handle him not being a good partner to you because he refuses to get a handle on his mental health

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I like that last line

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Nibbling his ear? Nope nope nope. We don't bite other people. ( Other than consensual adults) So shut that down

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My unplanned 3rd daughter was hard to carry, and has more Dr appt then her sister's combined at her age, and was the missing piece to our family

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Imo yes, you look better without it

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My 3rd was a surprise, and I cried when I found out, and she's the greatest addition to our family because of what she brings out in our other kids.

I don't believe in abortion for myself, but I do believe in it being a choice for everyone for any reason.

The pregnancy was harder but I was 37, had high BP. So your wife and you have a lot to consider.

Have you considered a nanny for a year? Or even a night nanny? That way your parenting time off could be well rested and a wonderful time in your lives.

I think God has a plan and sent you this pregnancy as part of it. Now whether that's because you should have another baby or so that your wife could empathize with other mothers in the future who have had to make this choice, or other reason I don't know. But when your wife's gut speaks to her, listen to it. God has a plan and it accounts for free will and he gave us the knowledge to perform abortions as well as the ability to make babies.

Best best best of luck OP.

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Updateme!

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Frumpy chic

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Lucky duck

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Quit playing you know you look good in that white dress I can tell from the picture

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Yep watched it twice

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Your wife does not truly benefit from it not being fixed. That mentality has you at odds with her. Look at it this way: How does it benefit her to have needy kids and an angry stressed out spouse? Because her meals are more peaceful? Having a more peaceful life would surely be of much greater benefit.