u/levijcalder

We dont really refer to queer people as "homosexuals'" anymore

I cant remember how long ago because i can't remember the vid but hes always been like this. Back in his Megan plays era, he made a joke saying "if Megan was a trump supporter she'd be MAGAn plays." Then said hes not on that side. Nothing new

This exactly! Not exactly exactly for me but close enough. People don't see all sides of it. And it's not two sides to a coin, it's more like those funky dnd dices. To some people it's just for fun. Or it's hookup culture. Or it's the most beautiful thing and an important part of bonding in a healthy relationship no matter how vanilla or kinky it is. Or it's the worst act that could be done to someone. Or it's kinda weird and not clear cut to someone. People tend to cling to an extreme and portray the idea of being anti or indifferent about sex is awful but in reality I'm just finding where I am in this circle man

You caught your husband once before sexting (GROOMING) his teenage students and you didn't immediately go to the authorities about this? It's not that you hesitated because it's terrifying, you just choose to ask him nicely to stop and didn't take any action. I'd be devastated to find that the spouse of my groomer didn't do anything to stop it when they knew it was happening

Yeah this isn't it. I get not liking labels and not getting the hype but being judgey about it for other people is not the attitude you need. I like my labels when I'm not feeling dysphoric. I like showing and seeing how I feel, I like having the words to explain it. It's not an obsession, it's an act of creation I take pleasure in, finding the labels that I decide that fit me. This really isn't the attitude you should be having, stop trying to force your anti-label viewpoint on people who did not ask for your unsolicited advice that shames and judges them for enjoying something you don't.

I didn't ask for advice. I especially don't want sexual advice. I don't want hormones to block anything and non piv sex isn't the solution here. I honestly feel really uncomfortable that a woman in her 60s is on a queer subreddit for teenagers and is giving me unsolicited advice on sex. I don't want to know about your sex life or anyone's and I clearly don't want any sexual things in my life as I said. Please go away and stop telling teenagers about your sex life, even when it's phrased as unsolicited advice