u/lissamon

14.7k post karma · 31.6k comment karma · joined Jan 2012

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yes, it must be so difficult for him to have a beautiful daughter who loves him and wants to spend time with him!

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from the title, I expected to hate it, but you look incredible! I love how you dressed it up.

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My husband and I would always take turns paddleboarding and watching the kids. Was it as much fun as going together? No, but my kids didn't die so it's worth it

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Yeah, I live in a beach town. one of my babies was three days old. The first time we went to the beach (sunrise, not in the heat of the day). The second baby was six hours old. They have basically grown up on the beach and I'm only JUST considering taking one on a paddleboard for the first time at 4 years old

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girl, calm down, are you lost? It’s not unreasonable to want to know who is sending mail to someone’s child. And clearly they do not care about me or they would respect my boundaries. :) the only person being ridiculous here is you, why do you even care enough to leave a comment on my year old post?

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It's funny, jobs I worked at when I was younger were super strict but every law firm I've ever been with has been anything goes Fridays!

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Same, I get that it’s common at daycares but we found a facility that serves whole foods (Waldorf inspired), the kids help prepare meals together, etc. It’s more expensive, but worth it in my opinion.

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We did couples counseling and he complained about what a waste of time and money it is and it didn’t help anything even though we only attended like three sessions so I stopped booking it because what’s the point if all you’re going to do is sabotage it and complain

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Word

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maybe. I think it might be a lost cause because so far all he has done is dig his heels in.

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it’s pretty much what’s been keeping me alive lately. I meal prep the chicken and quinoa, then throw it on top whatever I feel like. Spinach, cucumbers, mushrooms, hemp seeds, whatever I’m feeling.

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Hey this is mean

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“I Want to Be a Pilot” (I can read book) features mostly female pilots, it’s a great book!

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That sucks. I'm really sorry.

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From this comment, it sounds like he still hasn't taken accountability for it? If the narrative he sold you is that she is a "slut" who instigated everything and he "fell for it". Especially with the power imbalance, I highly doubt it. HE did this.

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I went to an outdoor community Nutcracker ballet and someone had their kit watching Baby Shark in a stroller without headphones. It was WILD.

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Those are definitely things people say about women in those communities, and it sucks. And I’ve definitely been on the receiving end of those comments.

but being a pick me is when a woman is acting superior to other women for being into traditionally masculine things, putting others down.

"I’m not like other girls, I like basketball!" "a manicure? Gross, I’d rather be working on my Subaru" "I only have guy friends, I’m not into drama"

It's fine to have those interests and hobbies; it's the inclusion of tearing down others in an attempt to elevate oneself that makes it a "pick me" situation.

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I'm a woman into vintage car and formerly very into gaming, that's not what it means.

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I've worked in law for fifteen years at a range of firms, and this is a little too short in my opinion. Especially for reception. It looks great on you though!

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Are you okay

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So by your logic, men are easy to obtain so they’re not valuable, and women are hard to obtain, so they’re valuable? Got it, thanks boss!!

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Damn, I think we figured out why your cat doesn’t want to sleep next to you.

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Can we just be done with onlyfans bait please 😭

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Girl the STITCHING

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Whew really skirted by at 34 getting to select "young adult", "older" would have really ruined my day 😮‍💨