u/murrmurllow

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murrmurllow

I just can't see that. I think it's weird to attribute our existence to anything. We often personify nature as some kind of entity with an intention: "nature always finds away", " it defies nature", etc. Nature has no intention. Nature is just a term for random things happening In such a way that life developed. In evolution, nothing intentionally adapts, it just happens. The environment, just happens to kill off those with unwanted traits, leading, not by intention but sheer happenstance, to an adaptation. The fact that randomness can lead to us, is why I love biology, but that's a bit of a tangent.

And if you don't prescribe to that, instead to a order of faith, than there is some reason or another depending on the religion, definitely isn't sex though, not my area of expertise TBH.

If your atheist than there is no reason for you existence, but what you decide to make of it. Because fact is, sexual desires are a byproduct of adaptation, of life, but certainly not necessarily a central focus of ones being. If it was truly all humans were focused on, well, we'd just be having sex in caves and would have never progressed. Or even have never progressed past reproducing single celled organims, I mean they reproduce just fine without doing anything else. Single celled organims contnue to happily inhabit the world today, there was honestly no need for evolution to evolve past them if it was purely about them surviving. But it's not nature's will for things just to survive and procreate, because nature has no will. Thus, humans are derived from a trivial probability.

There is simply too much outside of sex, that it doesn't seem viable that it be the pure "meaning" of existence. I feel like it's an argument made against gays a lot, that being gay is wrong because they cannot fulfill the supposed meaning of life by reproduction. That's just not true. If it was true then gay people would have no meaning for continued life, they'd be souless husks. And yet they are complex as the next person, and usually happy too, despite being unable to produce offspring. The same goes for elderly people no longer fertile. They make meaning.

Meaning after all is purely cognitive concept. You do not mean anything, you just exist. You are atoms, that happened to formulate into the specific pattern of our existence, not for sex, not for anything else, you just are. So in that case you have to decide what you exist, and enjoy that existence, because happiness is always something one can achieve, even under the worst circumstances, through one's own efforts. At least that's my reasoning. And I think thats really beautiful.

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There's certainly validity in that. I think the bad part about inceldom is that it is, as it's often reffered to as, an online echo chamber. On all these internet forums that not only provide a disconnect from reality, but a enclosed interface where people suffer from obcene levels of group think. It's a feedback loop that leads to rediculous distortion of what might begin as valid concerns, reasonably derived concerns. Hook up culture IS a development of recent society, though ones opinion of it may vary. And certainly there is never a guarantee of anything, and that includes a partner, romantic or sexual. I think one of the biggest problem incels have mentally is the pedestal they place sex on. Sex is not the end all be all of life. Sex is not a person's reason for existence. In a way the main post about stopping the obsession with sex for other pursuits is valid. But it, like most incel posts, faces distortion. The atrribution of that to someone somehow being "sub human", or calling then ugly, is not ok. Whether or not one is conventionally considered attractive or not, no one should be put down like that at a point where they are sensitive and confused, especially not god damn kids. Them especially, and anyone really needs to learn to be confident and self satisfied, not becuase it might help them get laid, but so they can be happy regardless of whrther sex is involved.

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Sometimes they start off with valid points, like the idea of opressed lower class, not everyone's cup of tea perspective wise, but not insane. Then they go into the weird BS about women, and Chads and etc. I imagine a lot of them started off with reasonable ideas, only for things to become distorted. That growth, or rather fall, from a healthier perspective, is pretty interesting.

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The most underrepresented art form, monster tiddies.

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It was late at night. For some reason the doctor would only schedule the appointment after dark. Something about him being nocturnal because of videogames and anime or something? I wasn't really sure it was a good idea, but I was pretty desperate, and he was the only doctor I could afford. Student lones had sucked by bank account dry, usually I would just try to suffer through watever ailed me but the racking coughs and piercing headache wouldn't go away, it was starting to effect my productivity.

So, I found an ad on Craigslist, probably not the best idea, but it was cheap! The ad went: "OwO he... hewoo internet. I... I don't mean to brag or anything looks bashfully in your direction but I'm a pretty smart guy... I have a high iq unlike most of you ahem normie cucks. I am a avid athiest, unlike you blushes embarrassedly infant minded paeasents. I'm also a musician, a writer, animater and a comedian. Don't get too put off by my sense of style, my gleaming black trench coat and gentlemanly, suave, fedora, I'm a really fun loyal guy. (Which is why I keep getting freindzoned, haha lol) Most importantly I'm a self certified medical professional, I'm mostly self taught lol. The uh... Gives a shy grin gentler sex... Haha females get a discount"

It sounded sketchy as hell, but I've heard on the down low that this guy, despite his eccentricities was pretty good at what he did. Do I drove up to the address where a nice women, was waiting for me at the door. She looked profoundly worn out, with a somber regretful expression held help upon a thin baggy face. It was almost as if her continued existence was a torturous ordeal. She nodded to me as I approached giving me a weary smile " oh... you must be Gerald's friend, I'm his mother actually" she said in a faint reedy voice. " This way please..." She squeake leading me through the neatly kept house, to a seemjnglg out of place grimy yellow stained door. She stood to the side, shaking her head in remorse as I entered through the door. The door opened up to a set of stairs, they creaked and moaned, lamenting my footfalls it would seem.

As I passed the threshold of the room, I doubted my decision like I never had before. The room stunk of moldy cheese, dried my dew, and some ungodly mix of dried human waste and urine. The room was dark except for the shallow blue light emenating from a computer screen. There were piles of toys: figurines, stuffed ponies, all manner of such things strewn about on the floor and grody shelves in no apparent order. Trash bags were similarly tossed around without care. In one corner I even glimpsed some suspicious looking yellow liquid in mountain dew jugs, I doubt it was mountain dew. My gaze slowly tracked to a skin colored lump on the floor.

It juggled slightly, and I realized it was a person. At first I thought it was naked, but on closer inspection hairy lumps of fat seemed to conceal a pair of brown stained tight underwear, perhaps once white but now a tepid sickly shade of yellow. I also noticed a too tight black doctors coat sqeazing the figures bare skin till it looked near bursting. Too small compared to the beings general mass to be easily noticeable. A fedora sat on greasy long hair that half concealed a parent of beady eyes, looking right at me specutively. It's meaty lips quavere above a navho stained neck beard. "Nyegh" He screached "you are not a FEEEEEEMALE, I made that post to court my soul mate...." He gurgled at me. "That is fine though someone with my intellect cannot afford to be picked, I am after all the superior being... " "So what ails you peasent?" "Oh it's okay I'll just go..." I stammered quietly, I'll admit that I was a little bit scared. " YOU DARE TEET ME MORTAL, WHAT AILS YOU?" he screamed in a meaty gargle. I flinched " I... Uh have this cough and headache... They uh won't go away"

"ah It seems you have a "m'alady" ( yes o wrote all this for that lame punch line)

"Might I suggest some dew for that cough, and for the headach well..." He scoffed " such is expected from inferior beings" I looked at him stunned and shaken from the order all. "Now that that's over perhaps I could eduacate you in the intellectual ways, there's this one anime I've been watching with this monster girl harem and they go and..." I shook my head. It was pounding, the headache had only gotten worse. The coughing shook my entire body, I realized I that I had been coughing up blood and pieces of flesh. I collapsed on the dorty, smelly ground, gasping for life. "Never trust a neck beard" I murmured In my dring throes as I slowl passed into obliion. I heard a faint "another case solved" As I breathed my last.

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I love how these have turned into low key burns, because I know that the OP definitely has someone specific in mind.

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The internet makes asses of us all.

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Oh yeah, I worry sometimes, buisnesses and politicians exploit the LGBTQ community to further their own agendas pretending it's all do e in good faith, if that's along the lines of what you mean? And certainly someone shouldn't automatically assume that you know a certain pronoun they want to be called by, some trans people can be jerks just like everyone else. I got you. 👍

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If people want a straight parade, then they can go ahead and organize one. TBH though there would be nothing wrong with them just joining regular Pride. I mean the whole point of pride is being PROUD of who you are whether you be straight or gay. But I'm pretty sure that this is more about being anti- gay then anything else.

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I'm not the best at dealing with arguments, but I just hope to get my point across. Certainly there are undeniable biological differences between being male and female. But, from my understanding, especially behaviorly these differences are pretty arbitrary. While one can broadly categorize the differences in the manner in which the female and male brain function, there is lots and lots of overlap.

The biggest idea when it comes to being transgender is the differences between sex and gender, a clarification or modification at least, of the terminology. Sex is defined as the biological aspect, and I don't think most transgender people argue aginst the existence of a biological male and female, at least no transgender person I know. Gender is defined as the social aspect. And I think that's the most important part. There is a lot of social baggage when it comes to gender, the way one dresses the way one is supposed to speak and act, legally things like that in many places are enforced, and if not legally they are socially.

The core of the LGBTQ movement has always been, as I see it, being true to oneself. So being trans is about breaking those social barriers and being who you are most comfortable with. Even if one decides that they decide that they want to be referred to as a diffirent pronoun, that does not necessarily mean they don't believe in biological differences in sex. Some people want to undergo surgery to become comfortable with themselves. And at that juncture things do actually change biologicaly, while technology does not yet allow a full conversion, given hormone treatment and having a genital inversion does modify things significantly.

So if the argument is that being transgender somehow holds back scientific progress, it's just not true, it's just a bit of terminology and perspective changes. Besides I don't think there had ever been a time when politics and science have been mutually exclusive. Given that that's the case, of all someone needs is to be called by a different pronoun to make them comfortable and happy, then why not give it to them. 😊

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Like to each their own, but I can never understand how people adolecent or adults can become so horny they just come, then and there. Like just from looking at someone? Like not even touching their d. It must be horrible.

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Who is Jack?

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Not if you say no homo

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I was lucky enough to have friends that literally did not give a fuck. I don't think I realized how lucky I was to have them until that point.

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I remember reading somewhere about how there was a ton of Nazi porn like right after ww2. It's not unbelievable, but it's always been really weird to me.

http://imgur.com/gallery/A4neQ9q

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I don't think it is... The Facebook account from my understanding, and what I've read from other commenters where his has been also posted, is active and has pretty real looking content. Also, if I'm not mistaken, I think I remember the profile pic and writing style from some other posts from before. I think it was one about this guy bragging about how good he was at karate or something?

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Waifu polygamy is unacceptable, what are we animals?

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I dunno, aside from the swastika tattoo he's pretty handsome. But then there's still a swastika tattoed to his arm. Damn... all the good ones are either taken or Neo-Nazis.

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Goodbye

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I do think think you CAN checkmate an incel. Following this metaphor: after checkmating an incel without a reason of a doubt, they'd just deny it and then throw the game board at your face in anger.

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I second this movement, so I hope your not joking.

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👍

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He must really hate dogs😟