u/shesagdb

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Super creepy to post his kids name

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After asking how they are, listening, and telling them that you'll be there for whatever you need- I would say something like:

I'm so glad that your baby will enter this world having a mother and father who will love them whole heartedly and unconditionally.

However life unfolds, that kind of love is beautiful.

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It literally means female dog used for breeding. I don't know how it could not be considered a slur? I don't like when Ethan uses it against women personally. Not sure why he's trying to die on this hill. Not equating it to the N word but he wouldn't use that against a black person he thought was a bad human 

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As a fellow breastfeeding mother- my child is easily distracted and needs a quiet place to nurse. They are also used for pumping and just because you absolutely can feed/pump in public with no shame doesn't mean I necessarily want everyone to see my tiddies being sucked into a machine. I think the pods are a nice courtesy and I love when public places consider the needs of breastfeeding mothers and infants in their designs. 

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Costco!

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Big meal and she did pretty well with it. Ate most of the avocado black bean mash, one of the egg strips and one and a half banana slices. 

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The only ones my baby would take are the lansinoh bottles 

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So I also had high lipase milk, it had a metallic-y smell and I referred to it as "penny milk". My daughter never refused the bottle but I also felt guilty giving it to her. Then a few months later I was pumping a lot less and noticed that the milk I pumped around 3-6 months did not have the metallic smell. I did some research and found that there may be an association between high lipase and high pump settings. I was pumping very frequently in the first three months to build my stash and pretty infrequently after month three. 

Unfortunately you already have a big stash but it could be just the earlier milk like it was for mine. 

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This guy is a dick but people are wrong in this thread and honestly I have seen this a lot online. DO NOT put soap IN your vagina. ABSOLUTELY DO use soap to clean your vulva! 

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Neutral smart

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Checking in from a medicine unit in Ontario- we very frequently have hallways patients. We are allowed to have three at a time and they can stay there for more than 24 hours. We have had droplet/contact patients and patients who need full cares in the hallways with only tiny barriers to cover them. We used to take more hallways until the fire department came in and said we were not allowed more than the three.

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Except she never called anyone poor. People were calling it a scam and she just clapped back.

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This game is so insane I don't even know if this is a joke or not

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I support this

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The men's team should refuse to compete in solidarity.

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I personally just wouldn't be with a man who needed to get outside validation on his appearance by posting half naked thirst traps

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AND... NOPE.

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I agree but I think there is a big different between sending sexy OF chats for money and actually buying sex. We can have different lines for these things. And yeah I agree that if she's genuinely enjoying her work and wants to do it or even if she doesn't love her job but thinks its fine then that's great. A lot of jobs suck. But what I'm saying is that in our current society where it is mostly illegal you can't be sure of that and I wouldn't risk being a rapist. And even in countries where it is legal it is often run by shady characters and therefore I wouldn't risk it.

And even if you could be absolutely positive she is doing it of her own free will I still wouldn't date a man who has paid for sex. Bc it tells me he views sex as something he can buy from a woman and that's icky to me.

Also we are a very anti capitalist community and I think it's funny that we are all acting like it's cool and totally not capitalist to go to a sex worker who is doing it bc she needs money. Sure a lot of jobs suck but it's pretty directly and intimately benefiting from someone elses financial troubles. Icky.

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I think sex work should be legal and safe and I think being a sex worker, owning all your own shit and liking your job is badass! I'm cool with my partner watching porn and supporting sex workers financially by subscribing to OF.

I do, however, think that paying for sex is creepy and gross. I think it should be legal and safe, but I wouldn't ever date a man who has paid for sex. ESPECIALLY bc how messed up the the industry is now, you can never be sure someone's passport isnt being held by an abusive pimp or something bc it's not regulated and trafficking is rampant. And if that person IS being forced/coerced even if you don't know you have still accidentally raped someone.

I think a lot of things should be legal and I still judge you for doing them. I can't imagine wanting sex from someone who doesn't want to fuck me and anyone who is cool with that is creepy to me.

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It's zac's brother

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Please be careful telling people your age or other details online! Be safe!

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I get that but I think it was too dark a situation to be included in a silly fake awards show

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I really wish they wouldn't have included the Amouranth situation. It was in pretty bad taste. I am surprised that no one on the crew spoke up about that one.

It just feels like making a joke out of women's trauma again.

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Why are they all women? What is this post trying to say?

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I love Ethan and I do not think this is intentional but it is how I feel sometimes