Agreed completely I waited until I became an adult so I could legally consent to practice anything involving bdsm, and honestly waited even longer to research everything about the objects I use, proper medical treatment, and making sure I was getting consent in the right way through negotiating each part of a scene. I think a big part that teenagers who are interested don’t understand is when they go online posing as an adult they’re putting another person or an entire group at risk for interacting with a minor. Also I realized at a young age that there is a lot of People who use a community in the wrong way, and prey upon people who don’t understand what’s happening and that there’s actually so many safety measures involved in the bdsm community such as classes and different groups online that make the information available to the public. Even though I wanted to find a top when I was younger too I just never did reach out to anyone, I took my time researching the community and evaluating the physical and mental risk of a scene on me or my top to see if it was right for me; which is what I always recommend before heading towards your first scene. Wonderful post and group, sorry I typed so much,
Agreed completely I waited until I became an adult so I could legally consent to practice anything involving bdsm, and honestly waited even longer to research everything about the objects I use, proper medical treatment, and making sure I was getting consent in the right way through negotiating each part of a scene. I think a big part that teenagers who are interested don’t understand is when they go online posing as an adult they’re putting another person or an entire group at risk for interacting with a minor. Also I realized at a young age that there is a lot of People who use a community in the wrong way, and prey upon people who don’t understand what’s happening and that there’s actually so many safety measures involved in the bdsm community such as classes and different groups online that make the information available to the public. Even though I wanted to find a top when I was younger too I just never did reach out to anyone, I took my time researching the community and evaluating the physical and mental risk of a scene on me or my top to see if it was right for me; which is what I always recommend before heading towards your first scene. Wonderful post and group, sorry I typed so much,