u/Automatic_Serve7901

Although I understand that you are celebrating being your authentic self, this dress is too much for a wedding. MAYBE if there wasn't the slit, but that slit is too much and the coresr style outline is boardeline..paired together is WAY too much.

Gently, this day is not about you. You need to find something that is you, but less ramped up?

I would definitely head over to yhe address (not alone) to check to see if you can get anyone she knows, if not file a missing person's report. It sounds like the vine you're getting from her is emergency/danger, not douchebag abandoner

If you want EASY, then invest in 2 items: A Crockpot & and Airfryer

The crockpot will let you dump in ingredients and leave it alone until dinner time. Tons of recipes online. Here is one of my favorites:

Verde Pork

2 bottles of Verde salsa or Canned Green Enchilada Sauce (I like Herdez for salsa & Las Palmas for enchilada sauce) 1 Boston Butt (pork shoulder) 1 envelope of fajita seasoning (optional) Add 1/2 can of Adobo chilis if you're feeling frisky .....Dump everything in the ceoxkpot together and cook on low for 8hrs .....Shred the pork with a fork ......Enjoy (put in tortillas for burritos, tacos, on rice or with veggies for burrito bowls).

The Airfryer will let you cook things quickly and can do pretty much any veggie or meat you want. I just chop up my favorite veggies, toss lightly in oil, add favorite spices and go!

Yes! You look awesome in this. It makes YOU pop, especially your eyes!