Although I understand that you are celebrating being your authentic self, this dress is too much for a wedding. MAYBE if there wasn't the slit, but that slit is too much and the coresr style outline is boardeline..paired together is WAY too much.

Gently, this day is not about you. You need to find something that is you, but less ramped up?

I would definitely head over to yhe address (not alone) to check to see if you can get anyone she knows, if not file a missing person's report. It sounds like the vine you're getting from her is emergency/danger, not douchebag abandoner

If you want EASY, then invest in 2 items: A Crockpot & and Airfryer

The crockpot will let you dump in ingredients and leave it alone until dinner time. Tons of recipes online. Here is one of my favorites:

Verde Pork

2 bottles of Verde salsa or Canned Green Enchilada Sauce (I like Herdez for salsa & Las Palmas for enchilada sauce) 1 Boston Butt (pork shoulder) 1 envelope of fajita seasoning (optional) Add 1/2 can of Adobo chilis if you're feeling frisky .....Dump everything in the ceoxkpot together and cook on low for 8hrs .....Shred the pork with a fork ......Enjoy (put in tortillas for burritos, tacos, on rice or with veggies for burrito bowls).

The Airfryer will let you cook things quickly and can do pretty much any veggie or meat you want. I just chop up my favorite veggies, toss lightly in oil, add favorite spices and go!

Yes! You look awesome in this. It makes YOU pop, especially your eyes!

Yes, but I don't really do it unless it's for a practical weather related reason. My dog HATES it, so I try very much to respect her wishes. She tolerates cute bandanas and that's good enough for me. She has a winter/water proof jacket as well, but I don't force her to wear it unless I am genuinely worried about her being cold.

I've had previous dogs who didn't mind Halloween costumes or little shirts and I've had others who do. I don't force my pets into wearing anything they show me they hate, unless it's for their protection.

This dress is Gorgeous!

girls rule

3 is best on you, I'm thinking maybe somewhere in Autumn...

You don't even need congress if you get that pedophile club perk. You can just do as you please and no one will stop you! Use the discount code "Epstein"!

4 is my favorite. Your skin looks great and I love the color! I also love the sun hitting just hints of red/brown in it. Dark, but not too dark.

Lol. Probably that and they eyes. So pretty!

I'm honestly not sure, but I just wanted to tell you are are hauntingly beautiful. Giving Christina Ricci vibes and I am jealous!

I once had 3 dogs. After the second one passed, I came home and the only one who I would let console me was my remaining dog. As I was crying and petting him it occurred to me that my boy was getting older and some day, I would come home to mourn him and there wouldn't be any dog there to help me grieve. I would come home to an empty, dog free, home. I never ever want to experience that.

So, I decided that once I gave myself some time to grieve my loss, I would get another dog. I am so very glad I did. My boy had also become depressed and was very happy to have a new sibling. My boy passed on two years ago and I am so very glad that I had a dog to help me through it and to continue loving.

It may be selfish on my part, but I love having a dog and never want to be without that companionship. They're a very special part of my family.

Options:

-Go with him every time and clean it up- No poop, no gross snacks.

-Take him on more walks- Often dogs will go on their walks. You can get it then and it's not sitting in the yard.

-Learn your dogs' poop schedule- Most dogs I've had reliably go the same time(s) per day (after dinner, ect).

-There are some powders to add to food that your vet might be able to give you. It makes the poop unappealing to them. This does not work long term for most dogs.

-Have a vet check him out. He may be missing something that he's trying to supplement on his own.

1 is my choice. You look AMAZING in both, but I think the first one is very fun, young/energetic, but more elegant/classy. The second one is very fun too, but a bit too like something I might wear under my dress for later. Though, this is a ME thing only. You rock the one you love more :)

1, no contest. It's an immediate WOW. It looks made for you and highlights you. The second one is nice, but hides you.

That first dress on you was WOW. It really highlighted you in the best way. I hope you can find a good dupe :)

I would look into Indian style veils for it, maybe something with some gold detail or trim in it.

I would also play up the color personally. Maybe some pieces with bright jewels. It'd tie into the garden colors and make you seem vibrant. I'd lean into it being non-traditional.

Everyone wants to feel loved. Everyone wants c9nnection. You're definitely not crazy for this and I can understand why at this point in your life you wish for romantic love.

May I ask how things are going? Do you have meaningful connections outside of romantic intent (family/friends)?

I think if you're really serious about wanting this for yourself, you need to first look around and make sure that nothing else is contributing to these feelings.

Secondly, if you haven't already told thid woman how you feel, do it. Bite thr big scary bullet so that you can move on (with or without her). Be very clear in your intent and see how it goes. You are obviously very hung up on her and it's affecting you. Maybe you are even missing opportunities because of this. If she doesn't feel the same, walk away. You want someone to give themselves fully to the journey, not someone who is giving you scraps or half measures.

You deserve love and connections. Please treat yourself with the respect you deserve and move forward. It's so scary, but you can do it. It's so cliche, but you gotta love yourself before anyone else can.

1 Looks so good that I couldn't even pay attention to the second dress and had to go back to give it a chance.

They both work, though I like 1 a smidgen better

Left first 2, Right for the last ones

They're both lovely. I think knowing more about your wedding/vibe would be the deciding factor (what time of year, venue (indoor outdoor), more fancy or more casual, ect).

Your dress is incredible! A modern Morticia, bit still very classic. Gorgeous!

I don't know if/how helpful this may be, but here's what I've learned from my own depression:

1. There won't be a magic cure. I have to learn to manage it.

-Do you have any outlet? Can you write, paint, or talk to someone? Sometimes just letting out the most vile shit in your head can make things more bearable. I don't know anything about your partner, but I would want to know if someone I loved was feeling the way you are now. If you can't talk to anyone, you can always message me.

1. Do you know what triggers you or makes things more intense? If you can figure it out, you can start with addressing it there.

-It's stress for me. I realized I had WAY more intrusive thoughts when I was stressed out. I've literally had to train myself to stop and interrupt the thought. To say, "no, I don't actually want to die, but I want to escape".

1. Try to pull things apart if you can and face them that way.

I'm sorry you're having to go through all of this. It really fucking sucks.