I’m sending you absolutely everything I can to make it easier, I was in a very, very dark place when I wrote that message, it was the anniversary.
It gets better every day, but it is such a pit to climb out of that it feels dark for a very long time. The memories all hurt to begin with, but they get better, and you start to appreciate them again. That’s been a happy part for me so far. When the memories stopped being painful and became happy again. It is a painful process, and there are no shortcuts.
Feel everything completely, honour his life. You made him proud in life, why would you let death stop you.
I’m sending you absolutely everything I can to make it easier, I was in a very, very dark place when I wrote that message, it was the anniversary.
It gets better every day, but it is such a pit to climb out of that it feels dark for a very long time. The memories all hurt to begin with, but they get better, and you start to appreciate them again. That’s been a happy part for me so far. When the memories stopped being painful and became happy again. It is a painful process, and there are no shortcuts.
Feel everything completely, honour his life. You made him proud in life, why would you let death stop you.