u/The_Real_Chippa

Is it even necessarily bisexual for someone to be with nonbinary people? I’ve always wondered this. When Chrishelle and G started dating, Chrishelle stated clearly that she is still attracted to masculine energy, same as she always has been.

1,000m+ is a solid hike.

What are people smoking!! The world is made for average people.

I’m not a doctor, but that looks like a Baker cyst

Honestly I think anyone whose height starts with a 5 (5’0-5’11) falls in the realm of “average height of a human” and is neither tall nor short

It is super flattering on her body type - but the skirt looks too short to be appropriate in public. Moreso something to wear in private with her partner

Muscle is definitely the answer! Embrace your heavier weight, and find a way to work out. If there was ever something that is basically a magic pill for pretty much everything, it is exercise - I implore you to make time for it.

On the one hand I agree with you, but on the other hand I often feel like I wished there was a subreddit, or even a different word other than “tall” for those of us who are extreme outliers bc it’s hard to relate to so many posts in a place that’s supposed to be for us

Russian isn’t OP’s native language, and they’re not even fluent either.

A woman simply cannot physically keep up with a man, if they are both athletic and training. It is why we separate men’s and women’s sports.

Same! I’ve been told I look “very proportional.” I take it as a compliment. But, it means that ALL of me is large, not just my height. My wrists, my feet, my limbs, my weight, and so on. I like to say “I am tall in 3 dimensions.”

This is me! I do manual labour for a living. While I struggle with a lot of “normal” exercises (push ups, running), I feel like an unbeatable *champion* when it comes to hauling heavy loads over really long distances. My endurance is insane, it’s as if my large body has more room to store energy, so there is always gas left in the tank.

Yesss when I was an underweight teenager with an eating disorder, I was a size 10. I do have a very tall slender friend who wears sizes a lot smaller than that, but it goes to show the difference in build. I have very wide hips, ribcage, and shoulders.

GIRL I love this!! Your style is exactly how I want to dress, or am trying to dress. Your clothes are practical and breathable, while also having this hippy feeling about them. And it looks like you have FUN with the way you dress, with the vibe changing depending on the day.

I am so keen to read the other comments here to get some more insight but Reddit isn’t showing them to me for some reason! I hope to see more of your posts and figure out what this style is called and how to do it!

I especially love your pants in 8. Outfits 3, 4, 5, and 8 are my favourites. I think one of the things that is speaking to me is how you balance masculine and feminine elements.

Most guys who are super tall will list their height. I met my husband (6’8”) on Tinder, although I had been open to any height when I went on there.

My preference has always been for tall men, but since that makes my dating pool so small, I determined I would look for a man who would “make me feel feminine” rather than focus on height. And I wanted a man who looks like he can pick me up (I weigh 200# at 6’4). I ended up getting really lucky and the man of my dreams just so happens to be a tall, handsome man 🥰

I will say, you may as well be picky and seek out what you’re attracted to while you’re young! I don’t love how tall women are constantly told they don’t deserve to have physical preferences. That mindset had me completely disregard the attraction component in relationships for years, which just left me feeling unfulfilled and confused.

Just get on any dating app and have fun scrolling through everybody with an open mindset, and you might find there’s a lot more tall men on there than you would have thought.

And in hindsight, we should have enjoyed it while we could, before we had to graduate to the men’s section hahaha

I was 6’ tall at 12 years old. I’m pretty sure I was still asking for colouring books at restaurants at that age. In hindsight, the hostesses must have thought I was a developmentally delayed adult. 😕

Yes it’s possible. I grew another inch some time between the ages of 17-19, after I had stopped monitoring my growth. And even with my bones being done growing, I believe doing regular yoga makes me a little taller as well (it also made my feet bigger). Your posture is better and you are less compressed. With the exercise you’re doing, that may play a small part.

Yes it’s elitist to expect people to only ever look up food recipes at the library instead of on Instagram. ??? WTF is wrong with getting a recipe from Instagram lol that person is crazy

Women who are 6’+ are noticeably tall

I think this sub over-emphasizes cool vs. warm. I also have warm hair, and neutral skin, and seem to look better in generally cool-leaning colours. But for me, it is saturation that is most important. I don’t do well in colours that are too bright or too dusty. I need colours on the darker side of slightly muted.

For some people, cool vs warm is the most important. For others, brightness. And for others, depth.

Honestly it reads a lot differently looking back at your comment right now. I had just read through a ton of comments on the thread and people kept making comments about white girls, when I am seeing a ton of different ethnicities in your post. Sometimes I feel like there’s a lot of bots here because I see the same old “nepo baby” “skinny rich girl” type comments in every single post on this sub which are just empty non-answers really.

Like yes it is a problem that those are the kinds of images we are inundated with. But isn’t that criticism of the beauty industry, a different tangent from what we are trying to answer here, wondering what makes something an aesthetic?

But idk, it sounds like you are suggesting that people might put different labels on the same clothes depending on who is wearing them, I guess I didn’t think of it that way before.

2 and 4 look bad, but you can pull off all the rest! Depends what you want. I love the blonde in 6. You could do that, then go to ginger after (since that also requires a bleached base).

The auburn in 1 is beautiful. You also look good in the regular brown, but if you’re curious about all these colours, why not do something more fun 🙂

Autumn. I agree that you’re soft. I also find it hard to tell if your skin is warm or cool, but you look great in the colours of #s 5, 10, and 13.

8, 12, 14, and 16 are also nice runner-ups, but I think the deeper colours look best. I also think you look better in cream rather than pure white.

You might have a bit of olive going on. I see it in some photos, but not others. Sometimes phone cameras try to “correct” olive tones out of the skin. But that could be the answer to why you are feeling confused.

Definitely autumn. The warm colours look lovely on you, but they are overpowering when too bright. The red clutch is a good example of that. You are soft and warm.