u/ThisOneForSecretShit

Thank you!

First time a post made me actually wanna go

Go to only fans

Thank you!! I think I can move the kneeling pad back. I was gonna use 1 inch carriage bolts because it seemed more secure. Is that right?

Wow what a nice cock, yall are in your way to stardom

Impossible without magic I guess, but I’d have a threesome with these two

Good insights, how do I figure out where the center of gravity should be. This is my for attempt at anything like this, so I appreciate any advice you can give me.

“I work in tech” should immediately disqualify a client. Biggest red flag. Tech bros are all crazy.

The question remains, why are 95% of the gigs family porn? When I was growing up watching porn on vhs tape (sorry I’m old) there were only a couple movies about it. Why is this so dominant now?

How was fest wrestling?

Yeah this is all accurate, and also most sex therapists are sex positive people and have a positive view of sex work, but ymmv.

Thanks, it’s weirdly not in the vinegar syndrome letterboxd

Does this movie have another title? I can’t find it in her filmography

Yeah that’s a bummer. If they are demanding your attention the entire time it’s gonna be really hard to pull out your phone for some pictures.

I’m a regular of one SWer only, and if she asked me to take photos to help with her business I would be happy to. I think it’s really dependent on the client.

This is a great question for a sex therapist. I highly recommend it. Changed my life.

I don’t know about other states, only Florida, but I suspect most states are the same in this regard: cops are legally allowed to lie, period. Do not buy into any claims people make that “if you ask if someone’s a cop they have to tell you or it’s entrapment”, that’s not correct. They can lie to you at every step. DO NOT EVER SAY ANYTHING TO A COP PERIOD. The only phrase you should ever say to a cop is “I want to speak to a lawyer”, say it over and over and over and over. As far as avoiding a sting, the best you can do is vetting clients before hand, which may not be an option if you’re working on the street level. Be safe out there.

Veronica is a real one, always loved her

I’m not a SWer, just someone who supports them, so I don’t have personal experience like the other commenters. But I think you have to decide if he’s a boyfriend or a client. If he’s a client he should be paying you for your time at your regular rate. If he’s your boyfriend then he should be supportive of you having your own income by seeing clients. If he can’t do one or the other, he may not be right for you, only you can decide that tho.

That makes sense to me, thank you for the thoughtful response! I wonder if there’s another way to offload the admin work. Like maybe a personal assistant who doesn’t draw a salary but works as an independent contractor and gets a commission or something like that. This feels like a solvable problem to me, I just don’t know the right method yet…

Please educate me if I have it wrong, but isn’t that why escorts used to use agencies? To do the burnout work so you don’t have to?

Be gay, it’s fun

Strange that a site for SWers has “LEO” in its name…

Not sure if it’s an option where you live, but in my city you can rent a small studio apartment for $1000 a month. So if you have 5 hotel stays a month then you break even by having the apartment, and then every incall after that you keep more of your fee. Also, if you rent it with another SWer and you can coordinate so they are using it on the days you’re not then your costs get split in half.