u/Unclesam1313

Yeah vibes based downvotes for sure- their comments don’t really even tell whether they lean left or right, everything said is popular across the spectrum. It’s just people piling onto some perceived disagreement without any reading comprehension

That’s simply not true. There are so many factors other than pure discipline that play in, many outside of our control. Our culture puts a such a heavy emphasis on personal responsibility that it can often feel easiest for people to just blame themselves. It’s not weak or a cop out to recognize and understand the other factors at play; rather it can be a powerful gateway toward pulling out of self loathing and finding the strength/strategies you need to live a better life. I do hope you, and anyone else who struggles, can find something like that.