u/dollop_of_curious
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OK, people need to chill the fuck out.
Someone posted a month or two ago a map showing the correlation between areas that have widespread use of cutlery, chopsticks, and hands for eating, and the relative rates of food born illness. I don't remember the subreddit, i think it may have been one of the geography ones. Areas with wide acceptance of chopsticks or utensils have a significantly lower rate of food born illnesses.
Of COURSE everyone has a type of finger food. NO I'm not saying cultures that use their hands to eat are to be disrespected. NO I'm not trying to dog whistle racism.Of COURSE societal realities are complex.
If you hate the thought that utensils like chopsticks or forks are cleaner, then EAT THE GODDAMNED PASTAWITH YOUR HANDS YOU FUCKWITS! jesus...
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You're not wrong, moderatedfler, you're just an asshole!
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Were you an adult during his term? ANYTHING he did was slapped down by conservatives. I'm not defending things, many of those decisions make me very sad. But if you don't know the context, your derision is impotent.
He constantly presented an olive branch, just for Republicans to immediately slap it away.
He tried to acquiesce to conservatives. That sense of "meet them where they are" has brought on the nazism we see today. There was HOPE at that time republicans wouldn't go full fascism.
Blaming Obama is really just being a Trump apologist!
Obama's statements need to be heard in the time they were spoken, and remembering the audience they were spoken to.
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Someone...
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You also don't contribute to this thread... 😁 . (Dark humor friend, you don't seem to respond to empathy)
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That's called consent.
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Snitching is not a good thing... but that is different from reporting HIGHLY suspect behavior. Snitching means don't get involved/tattle-tale, but this person already involved everyone!!!
Sexual behavior requires consent. What you described is very sexually deviant in nature, flagrantly public, and devoid of consent.
Any normal institution would consider this behavior as possible grounds for expulsion, at the very least.
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my wife has been rereading Frankl: Man's Search for Meaning. We just happened to be talking today about his point that having an abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal, and that a "normal" reaction to an abnormal situation is very abnormal. Life lessons of the Holocaust...
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Yup
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My wife works in an office of nearly all women, so this is a pet peeve of mine...
when you tell a story where ALL the characters are women, she/her is NOT SPECIFIC ENOUGH to understand which character you are referring to nor the DIRECTION of the emotions!!! A to B? Or B to A? Is SHE HER? Or is SHE someone else? Who is HER?
You are being a good pertner. Sometimes, there is a lot more pain being buried with people than the bereaved may realize.
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There are multiple kinds of infidelity, and one type is emotional infidelity without a physical component.
This can be particularly difficult to navigate, as the perpetrator may not be fully aware of the harm they are causing, and, in some cases, may not be aware they are acting out situations of infidelity.
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I am also a musician. Ya know there are lots of Mozart letters penned to his wife complaining about how basic the commissions were, and how beneath his art it all was. But (an approximation) "were it not for the bills to be paid" he would abandon them.
Certainly not saying you are Mozart, but my favorite Joan Rivers quote is "There is a reason it's called show business, and not show art!"
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Fuck you
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I was going to write a well thought out response as to why you are trash, but then I realized you are not worth it. But you are trash. (Or a bot/troll)
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Wut????
No, it violates an understandably private area of someone's life. When you use lingerie for your own personal use, but then suddenly have an image of someone violating your personal boundaries with these items of clothes it can certainly change the sexy mood, and that is ANOTHER level of the total violation!
Your "guarantee" in gender rolls is utterly incorrect! BOUNDARIES matter in sex and privacy, and CONSENT matters in sex and privacy!
Your lack of consideration for consent makes you come off as a bit rapey...
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Your second stanza is the correct one.
There is a degree of posturing. The libs are slow to coordinate so they don't look like an oppositional force that requires emergency powers to counteract a terrorist threat, giving Trump infinite power till he fucking dies, and then extending the emergency powers to the following fascist administration. Aka- republican wet dream!
We have a culture war on our hands, and none of us really know yet how to fight it. We are only beginning to understand what the weapons are. It is no different than the poor souls entering the second world war early with only the technology of the first war... nobody yet fully understands the weapons of the enemy!
Everyone is in a state of hunkering down. We don't know if our government will allow most of us to starve to death out of spite by hindering the economics of food products!
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I so agree.
This post title kinda makes it sound like a critique of the bishop. I want to upvote the sentiment of Bishop Budde, but I want to downvote the sloppiness of op in the language.
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Doesn't anyone notice Hillary is also obfuscated?
I am not a conservative by any means, but I'm surprised this is eluding people's attention...
I think excluding Trump is purposeful, but excluding Secretary of State Clinton isn't un-noteworthy. I doubt it's intentional, but the lack of observation is striking to me.
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I'm gonna upvote you for propper sub posting, but you can go royally fuck yourself!!! I want so badly to list the reasons you are fucked in the head and completely misguided. A completely ignorant perspective.
It makes me sad...
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I know! These accusations (innocent till proven guilty!) are coming from NOWHERE! Complete fabrications!
We stand in unity! Our culture is fireworks, ammo, lifelong manual labor, and demure women! Love it or leave it!!!
I have to add /s bc I'm terrified someone would be so stupid as to misinterpret my tone... but the idiocy of Americans continue to surprise me...
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totally agree. She got told through body language "don't do it," and her attitude was "don't tell me what to do!" That guy was the tension break of the room! Gal was seeing red, and couldn't think straight.
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I honestly started losing hair before 16. It was rough. I buzzed my hair the shortest possible for years, and now I shave my head. I love it, especially with the right tools! (covid was funny bc everyone was bitching about no haircuts and I was like "I win this one!!!")
I have a full beard with shaved scalp. I think your look seems too fresh, which I've always been afraid comes off as "cancer-patient." Perhaps some bit of facial hair would even out your look? Don't know what style you might gravitate to... your call.
Your head shape is great. Invest in light winter caps. You'll be amazed what 1mm of hair can do for warmth compared to shaved. My wife knitted me a scull cap that I love. I keep it with me all the time, and I've received many compliments.
The worst weather is when it's slightly cold, but humid. With no hair, I get sweaty bc of the humidity, but then I get freezing bc it's a little cold. Keeping good body temp becomes more difficult. At least for me...
One positive of aging is that people suddenly don't give a fuck eventually. No more social judgement. Best wishes!
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You are very sophomoric. But also with a hint of repugnant aura.
You are half baked, and half rotten...
Remember Pitt and Jenifer Aniston, and Jolie was the homewreaker in the tabloids???
I'm not convinced any of the adults are sane. Those kids aren't living an existence that promotes normalcy... I hope they find the right balance of boundaries and togetherness. I suppose i wish that for everyone...