Episode Discussion S09E16 - "How Your Mother Met Me" (Here be spoilers!)

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A_Slow_Redditor

She hesitated, but when Ted ask her to marry her she didn't even let him finish. It makes the scene even better.

EcKLeSS

Didn't even realize this until I read your comment. That's awesome.

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shesagdb

People seem to be interpreting the mother saying no to Louis as she is not over her dead boyfriend. I see it as the exact opposite, it is her finally getting over him. She has been with Louis for a while knowing that she's not in love with him but if she ends it then she's alone again and has to open herself up to the possibility of love with someone else. When he proposes, she knows that she can't say yes and stay with him forever because she wants love. So she says goodbye to Max and tells him no. Finally making herself available to fall in love again, just in time to meet a guy who's finally given up the girl he's been in love with for nine years.

jsnail89

I agree 100%. You could tell she'd say no to Louis after he didn't love her singing breakfast food. C'mon Louis! A singing english muffin is great!

drfetusphd

Wow. Never saw it that way, and I'm totally in love with that interpretation.

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THE NAKED MAN KNOWS THE MOTHER

waxx

TWO OUT OF THREE BABY

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noseonarug17

So he walked past her in a dress? Oh god...

Smunny

Wouldn't she have recognized him?

csl512

Her attention was elsewhere.

catiebug

And it's New York. Does a dude in a dress even really register for you guys?

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The Mother talking to Max... This is heartbreaking...

cormega

I gasped out loud when I realized Max is to the mother what Robin is to Ted.

Edit: In the sense that they're both obstacles to Ted and the mother finally moving forward romantically.

Anitrak1

Six! Six broken proposals in this show!

edit:no numerals.

TheSecretExit

Well, about 1,384 if you count all of Barney's fake ones.

Ragu2110

Nope. Only 83. I counted

t3hzm4n

AH AH AHHH!

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MrF33n3y

I think I'm in love with her.

Semper-Fido

I called dibs already

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OsamaBinChillin

I must say that Curtis is a true bro. When the mother asks for a room, he knows that the room he gave her is the best room because of his lonely friend Ted. I fucking love this season. Going to be really sad when it's all over :(.

2rio2

He's just wants Ted to hang in there.

OsamaBinChillin

GGC.

theseekerofbacon

She's just around the corner...

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lecadavreexquis

DAMMIT TED, SHE'S RIGHT THERE.

TheMosby

Ted meets Robin the exact night that the Mother loses her boyfriend. Therefore, they both have this lingering person who they can't get over and therefore cannot fall in love with anyone else... that is... until they meet.

Jedmac90

That is absolutely brilliant. Ties right into the baggage episode too... They can help carry each other's baggage because it is so similar.

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lecadavreexquis

The Mother says Renaissance correctly, according to Ted.

sjrose

She learned the proper pronunciation from an encyclopaedia.

Keyan2

You're going to have to paedia for that

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ShibuyaStation

ONE TASTY ENGLISH MUFFIN

noseonarug17

Masturrrrring those games...

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Save the Arcadian posters!! Loving the minor details!

sjrose

I half expected Zoey to pop out.

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crayonbox

The actress killed it with the scene of her talking to Max. It was a really good scene. Makes me wish I had seen them together.

DirtyPie

It's a good tactic not to show him, or we might grow attached to him and root for them as a couple.

crayonbox

Totally. We have the Ted/Robin camp and Ted/Victoria camp, we don't need Mother/dead bf camp too.

DirtyPie

No, we need to gather our troops now!

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TanStoney

I got pretty choked up. Where was she 2 seasons ago!?!?!?

crayonbox

Her singing on the end also cemented it. Fantastic.

fco83

Hell.. the more i see her the more i continue to be convinced it was a huge mistake not to feature her more in this season. Great actress, and you just cant help but fall in love with her.

TanStoney

Agreed. I want more of her. I want a spinoff with her and Ted. Hell, I just want more her. She's so amazing. I think the whole fan base is madly in love with that woman.

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Anitrak1

They must have paid extra for her. She's a pro.

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EcKLeSS

That red dress on the mother's redhead friend. Oh. My. God.

-NAhL-

pulling. it. off.

nictheman

I would pull it off.

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ramesali786

SHE EVEN GETS PUZZLES! She's PERFECT

NeedleandThread

SHES THE MISSING PUZZLE PIECE!!

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Jay-Walker

What the heck was that all about? I really wanted to see a promo for the next episode. I was hoping it would show Barney going next door and Ted finding him...

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That ending, you could see it in Ted's eyes; he finally felt Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz

[deleted]

So Ted fucked a shitload of women on the way to meeting his wife while his wife suffered a devastating heartbreak on the first episode and then had like one relationship right before meeting Ted. Such extremes...

t3hzm4n

But they ultimately were both held back by one person they couldn't get over (for vastly different reasons, but still).

Bossmonkey

And ended a multi year relationship the day before meeting him.

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catiebug

That thing between The Mother and Cindy was stupid... sooooo stupid... so stupid...

DirtyPie

I think it made a lot of sense tying Cindys resentment of the mother together with her becoming a lesbian.

catiebug

I agree actually, I just couldn't resist a good joke for karma. But seriously, when Cindy was later revealed as a lesbian, that was my very first thought. I'm glad they followed up on it.

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pokefan1337

I'll wait for the gifs

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catiebug

I love everything about what they're doing here, but it's moving SOOOOO fast!

chegs81

Agreed. It would've worked better as an hour-long special.

fcbarcaftw

Agreed, it was such a beautiful, well-shot and informative episode. I just wish it was an hour long instead, I feel as though they couldv'e told this story better. It feels like a checklist imho. :P

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Also glad that they didn't just green screen her into scenes.

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"Girl, I will sham-rock your world."

betterthings2do

Yet she believed his penis granted wishes...

cormega

Yeah I thought that was weird too.

Inspace96

Maybe she met him before the st.Patricks party and this is why she blew him off

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universal_straw

There's two bars!!

PepperAnn90

Well, now we know the mother isn't the one who picked up Lily...

ChucklesDone

I assumed it would be Ranjit. With the town car and all.

Ellof

Could it be scooter, her dad, or our favorite cab driver?

FireFlyz351

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EcKLeSS

"The mother of the bride never checked in."

NOOOOOOOO

noseonarug17

well, we kinda knew...):

JaxiDriver

But boy did he have a knowing grin on his face, sly devil

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Kloness

NO LOUIS

NotBrandon

ITS OKAY WE KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IN THE END.

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The second he went down on one knee I started shouting "NO!"

csl512

No, nononoonononononononononononononono No! no no no! ?

-n64

"Really? Sixteen no's?"

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dontblink123

THAT IS NOT NEXT WEEKS HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER CBS!!!

GSU_fan91

SOMEONE DUN GOOFED

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gbarasch

I feel like they're running down a checklist of the last 9 years of our lives.

exophoria

If the whole HIMYM series went at that pace, it would have finished 6 years ago

HorseCannon

Just stick your stupid head around the dam wall! COME ON!!

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how creepy would that be to just see this head whip out at you from behind the wall all like "GOOD EVENING!" totally kills the emotional moment for the mother :P

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Anitrak1

Who called her boyfriend was going to die? well played.

Atheose

This is like the episode of LOST where you get the background on Jacob and the Smoke Monster.

[deleted]

No, god damn it CBS. You can't name the episode "How Your Mother Met Me", and have no one meet each other!

FratDaddy69

They've been doing it the other way around for years, why stop now.

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thekidfromyesterday

The Mother just needs to say encyclo-padia.

spaceonfire

Is ren-ay-ssaince good enough for you?

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antandslug

I don't know if anyone caught it but.... ROBIN IS SITTING RIGHT BEHIND THE MOTHER around 14 minutes and 30 seconds into the show. When it's zooming out you can see Robin's face when the camera is zooming out. (half her face) EDIT: http://i.imgur.com/jvI7y8I.jpg

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Anyone else notice that they're playing the same music for the Mother breaking up with Louis that they played for Ted at the end of The Time Travelers?

cromulentc

The mother will be the 1 time it doesn't work out of 3

timelordwizard

Wow this is beautiful, her singing.

ovie87

Calling her name is Rose.

Jeff2017

Whoever called Rachel Bilson's character falling for The Mother. GG

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